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I am falling apart.
June 22, 2005
6:13 pm
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I am married to a wonderful man, but something has been missing. I starting having an affair last year, with a drug addict of all people. I love my husband and do not want to end the marraige, yet I am having a hard time letting go of my lover. The weird thing is that my lover is not good for me and I know it, I know he will not give up his lifestyle for me. I feel like I am addicted to him and can't let go. He is wanted by the law, and I hold his bond for something else that he will probably keep running from and I will end up paying. For some reason, I am scared that if I turn him in he will hate me forever and there is a chance he will tell my husband who would be crushed. I don't want that at all. My husband and I are going away for a few days and I am hoping to get this guy out of my system since there will be no contact. I just don't want to be spending the whole time wondering if he is calling me. Can anyone give me some advice as to how I can get this guy out of my system and go back to what I thought was a happy life>

June 22, 2005
6:33 pm
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Please look this up and try to attend atleast 6 meetings. I too am addicted to someone who is not healthy for me. I havehave been going to these meetings for over 3 weeks and they have helped me gain more strength than I ever could have imagined.

I promise you, your life will be changed.

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