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I am codependent and i need help !!
July 23, 2005
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Hello, I am going through my 5th devorce right now and blame alot of my failures on being codependent all of my life. I am constantly seeking approval form someone anyone .I am a failure at everything I do .
I cant seem to finish anything I start nor do have the disire to anymore. I feel so empty inside and fullfiled. I want to know what it feels to love myself and be abe to forgive truley . I am a good person that is so lost and seeks to find the right way and make my life better than I have ever know it could be . PLESE HELP ME !!

July 23, 2005
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I just finished reading "Be Your Own Best Friend" by Louis Proto. When I got to the part that elaborated on codependent behavior, I was stunned! It explained my patterns exactly and I began to cry. I cried mostly because I now finally have some understanding as to why I have been so unhappy for most of my life. I have been going to therapist now for about 3 months and I do not believe that it is helping me. From what I have recently found out is that you need to find a therapist or group support that treats codependent behavior. If you are with a therapist that does not fully understand this behavior pattern, then you will continue to feel poorly, like I do. Do a search on online for group support in your area regarding codependency.

July 25, 2005
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You aren't alone. I am on marriage 3 and it isn't doing so hot. Now I know this is going to be hard to beleive but he is an alcoholic, wow big surprise just like the other two. I to have the power to take care of everyone and everything but myself. It seems like a sickness to me. Why do I feel better if I am giving to someone else? Or is it controlling someone else? I myself am turning to alanon for some hope of change within myself. Good Luck

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