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husband treating me very badly
September 15, 2001
10:58 pm
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Troubles
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Hi, i need to talk to someone.My husband is treating me very badly.My life is becoming a living hell.I have two children and if it werent for them I wouldnt be here anymore.I feel very alone and just would like to hear from people going through the same thing.I feel so helpless.

September 16, 2001
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I am a SAHM and if it weren't for my husband I would be able to work. I gave up school because he needed me to support him while he got his degree then when school was over I needed to support him in his career. I wait on him hand and foot and never hear a thank you. He talks crap about me to his online friends saying that I nag him to get off the computer and he never takes me out to diner with his friends and their wives anymore. He tells them we can never find a sitter, but gee, with so many cousins in need of date money it sure would be easy if he'd just ask. And if he would spend more time with me instead of in his online clubs I would leave him alone.

Sound familiar?

September 16, 2001
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Well, we can all sit around and take it, or we can struggle to make a difference. Our kids today get better training in ascertiveness than we ever did, and sometimes we end up in a dark hole, but there is a way out. There are several options, most start with education, and financial planning. You can try to work on the marriage, or your selves, and some times both. When you feel independent, and understand the behaviors of both your selves and your mates, you understand your options, and what your gain is in maintaining the relations as it is. Its a very scarey time, emotions are on edge, and I'm the last one to suggest radical change right now. So, save your money, get physically fit, start some school, either on psychology to understand you and relations, or get a trade for employment, independence= freedom.
Change in the relationship can start with you, try Relational Rescue by Phil McGraw. its not all their fault, we have allowed them to do to us.

September 16, 2001
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Troubles,

Your not alone, and alot of us are listening to you. Do you feel helpless because you don't know what to do, turn to, or ask? How old are your children and what is it that your husband is doing to you?
You state if it weren't for your children you wouldn't be here. What does that mean? Live or Run...
Please hang in there, let us know if you can what is happening , maybe some of us can help with some support or guidance in assisting you with what you need.
Take care and stay in touch. We are hear and we are listening
Cerry

September 19, 2001
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Troubles, Cerry has alot of good knowledge and advice because we have all been there done that. But your main concern should be those children, they need to be in a healthy environment so they can grow up healthy. You are not alone, believe me but remember life is so precious we need not throw it away.

September 21, 2001
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