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Hurting in Canada!!
March 21, 2004
11:50 am
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September 24, 2010
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I am a 35 year old woman and a victim of verbal and emotional
abuse...I have been with this man for 4 years and most of that time he has been
abusing me...I have a child by him a boy 2 years.
My story is long but i feel i should tell you that i have been abused
all my life in one way or another...my abuser just left me and i am
stuggling big time with issues of abandament...funny i wanted him to leave
so many times and now that he's gone i miss him...I have been through
so many emotions in the last few days it has left me not knowing what
way is up...One minute im happy the next im crying...then im angry and
depressed...In the past i have always been the one to leave so i feel
that was why i didnt have a hard time in the past...but boy i'll tell
you...this one hurts...You see the thing is he's still coming around
because of our son...he brings milk and food and whatever i need...and that
part of him i always loved...so for him to not be here but still coming
around is very hurtful...Please help me to understand what im going
through...and give me some words of strenth.I must also mention that i
have a 10 year old daughter by a past relationship...and to have to keep
on a
happy face with her around is totally killing me.

Thanks so much
Lisa struggling in Canada

March 21, 2004
9:50 pm
Forum Posts: 27
Member Since:
September 27, 2010
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Dear Lisa...

The pain you are going thru is great. You have been suffering a long time. I do not have all the answers for you, just shoulder to lean on. I would strongly suggest you seek counseling though as this has been an on-going/re-occurring cycle for you. Need to break free of the cycle for your own good and that of your children. Your 10 year old has witnessed a lot I bet. She may need someone to talk to as well... You all need to do some healing. I wish you well... I shall say a prayer for you to have strength to get thru this.

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