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Hugs and Support for Sleepless
October 9, 2007
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Hi Kroik

I know, I was thinking about John when I was having a shower this morning. It is also my friend's birthday today so he always gets a card because I dont forget the date.

Yes Sean is 32...and Julian has already outlived his Dad.

it's ok about posting or not posting....like I have said, I do that all the time

Positive vibes back at you.....

Hey Mich; how you doing?

October 9, 2007
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ohhhh..... you're right- Julian has outlived his dad. :-0 That is so sad.

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Thanks for the hug, Mich.

I'm heading to bed. Have a good day you guys.

October 22, 2007
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(((((sleepless/ blackbird)))))

Sending hugs and positive vibes and agnostic prayers for you and for your child who is ill.

love and good thoughts always,
kroiks

October 23, 2007
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bumping this for you, my friend.... it's a new day, morning where you are. Thinking of you and sending more positive vibes.

Do stop by the kitchen anytime for chicken soup refills ((((blackie))))

love, kroiks

October 23, 2007
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Ah...Kroik

You are always there...offering support just when I need it most. Spooky sisters ?

Thank you. My daughter is ok, well she isnt ok but she will be. She has one of those teen illnesses that can drag on for some time and her immune system is low and she doesnt seem to be getting any better.

But I know that she will do.

And I feel so much stronger these days. Better able to cope with it all.

Thank you as always dear friend. Your love and support mean so very much to me.

October 23, 2007
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Ah, (((blackie)))

I'm glad to hear you sounding so positive even in a difficult time. And I'm glad my cyber-support from across the pond is of value to you.

I will continue sending get-better vibes for your daughter. From my work I have learned to be in awe of the healing powers of the human body, especially young people. I hope she will be 'right as rain' before you know it.

Good thoughts to you always,
love, kroiks

December 5, 2007
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((((Sleepless))))

Just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you....I hope that all is ok. I haven't seen you around here recently....

You alright??

Love to you...

Michigan

December 10, 2007
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You doin alright??

Haven't heard from you in a bit....

Thinking about you.

(((sleepless)))

December 31, 2007
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(((sleepless)))

Missin you...

Just wanted to let you know that...

Love ya....

January 4, 2008
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Hey our English rose....

sending you much love and good energy for the new year, and wishing health and happiness to you and all your loved ones.

((((blackbird)))

January 4, 2008
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Hey Mich

How you doing? Thanks for bringing my thread back up. It is lovely to hear from you and you know something, right now I really am grateful for the hugs and support...but hey, what's new with that? :o)

I peeked at the safe place; (((Mich))) I am sorry things are difficult for you right now with Jay. I understand that a little. I am still trying to figure out if my H is really a changed man or if he is just playing it clever...you know?

There were times when my kids were small that I could have killed him with my bare hands for hurting their feelings. He was never physical, but his put downs and criticisms of all of us hurt me very much and skewed my perceptions of what was ok and what wasn't.

It isn't like that now, mostly i think that is due to the different way I respond to him. And to the fact that the kids wont take his shit because they are all grown now. Most of it I learned from here and I am really grateful for that.

I hope things get easier for you and you can resolve it and have some peace.......

take care Mich.....much love

January 4, 2008
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(((Kroik))))

Thank you. I do want 2008 to be a good year. I just hope I have the courage I need to make it so.

I hope we all do

Good wishes to you too
((K))

January 5, 2008
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(((Sleepless)))

I am a pretty "huggy" person, so, I will give ya all the hugs that ya want.

As far as your h is concerned, well, I hope that he has legitimately changed for the better. Wouldn't it be nice to be able to know for sure??

You deserve to be happy. I can only hope that happens for you. Honestly, I want to see you happy.

As far as Jay, well....I just don't even care at the moment. I really don't. My heart aches over what has gone on here. I have been stupid and believed him too many times.

Right now, I won't even tell him that I know about this last incident. Why would I?? I am wasting my breath and I know that. It is simply a waste of my breath. He doesn't care how I feel about it. He has made it clear that he does not think that there is anything wrong with what he is doing.

See, in his eyes, the problem really, is that I think that there is something wrong with it. He blames the way I feel about all of this on my past. Why does that have to be the case really?? It isn't the case at all. I KNOW that what he is doing is hurting the kids. In particular, Alex. The kid has pissed his pants out of fear of him, and now he has thrown up and refused to tell him out of fear of getting him in more trouble.

There is something REALLY wrong with this picture. All I can do, is hope that I can figure out a way to deal with it. Whatever it is, I hope it works.

It is very tough for me to crawl into bed next to him and act like everything is ok. I KNOW that everything is not ok. It isn't. I am hurting, and I am angry. I want to blame him for turning me into my mother, BUT, the truth is, I am doing that all on my own. I am being just as horrible and negligent as she was. And I know it.

So, I guess now is the time to do something about it. But that is tough too. I want to know that I will be ok with the four kids...but, I don't know that at all. I don't know how well I will handle raising them alone. BUT, I am sure that it is possible. I am just going to need some help.

In the meantime, it is going to take some balls to get there I guess. How wrong is that?? Again, proof that my pride comes before my children. That and my fear of being alone.

The real truth here...I don't deserve them either.

Anyway...thanks for the well wishes. Please keep me in your thoughts as I struggle through this situation once again. I would appreciate it.

As always, you are in my thoughts and close to my heart.

Love you,

Mich

((((((Sleepless)))))))

June 20, 2012
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Kan it really be 4 and a half years since the last post on this thread? For some reason I felt like taking a stroll down memory lane... so what the hey.

Ah... what a time we've lived through. One might even say, a long and winding road. One might!

Well tara then.

kisses from kroiks

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