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HOW YOU BECOME PREY TO A CHARMER/ABUSER PERSONALITY?
June 16, 2012
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It's true. Don't give in to these people. They know exactly what they are doing and no matter how much you actually cared for them, they will not change.

June 23, 2012
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So many men and women choose these types and never understand what happened—unless they enter a recovery program. No one can fix a needy person, earn their love and build a lasting relationship on mutual codependent neediness. It’s impossible.

Recovery programs like Alcoholics Anonymous, Al-Anon and Codependents Anonymous provide the light needed to lift the darkness from our eyes. Through these programs we gain self-awareness, come to better understand our own behavior and the behavior of others, and start the journey toward healthier, happier lives.

June 24, 2012
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I like your answer but why do you call yourself MADD? I might be wrong, but on some level we all are "co-dependent enablers". Both the charmer/abuser and the victim are to blame. The woman chose the charmer because he was charming. What woman do you know that is not attracted to a man that pays attention to her?

June 24, 2012
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You asked "What woman do you know that is not attracted to a man that pays attention to her?". My answer is Lesbians.

June 25, 2012
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Good Answer!

June 25, 2012
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Thanks for the compliment.

July 3, 2012
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People are attracted to kindness

July 7, 2012
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Thanks for sharing post like this it is highly informative

July 28, 2012
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Many will find this useful

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