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How would you handle this?
September 28, 2001
2:52 pm
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pam g fu
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Your spouse went out and didn’t come home. Would you rush home to find out why? Would you go ahead and do whatever it is that you want to do? Or don’t waste yourself on it

September 28, 2001
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I would do what ever felt right. The more you let something bother you it will just make it worse. How could you enjoy yourself if he is on your mind the hole time. I would let it all out to him over the phone or something then go out....

September 28, 2001
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First, are you certain that he is OK? If you've ruled out that he might be injured, and is just being careless, I'd go about your business for the time being, and then ask him about it when you get home, face to face. It's bugging you, so you might as well at least hear his side of it, right? Something serious might have happened. Do you have reason to suspect that something that is not quite above board is going on?

September 28, 2001
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Yeah, he just called and he knew he needed to call but supposedly was going to a baseball game with one of his friends that i don't care for and wasn't even going to tell me he was going. Well, then he said his buddy left him at his uncle's house and he couldn't get his truck out, and i said no excuses, there are no excuses for not calling, you mess up you have to fess up. Thanks for the words this has been a rough day

September 28, 2001
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YOO HOOO....He's testing you......

Like a bad little boy would test his mommy. "I can do what ever I want.! And you can't stop me!"

Get yourself out of the mother role! Tell him if he doesn't start acting like an adult by taking his responsibility for this relationship, that you don't see any need to waste your time on it!!!

Stop stressing out... just tell how it is...

September 28, 2001
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Stop expecting him to act like your equal - HE'S NOT ACTING LIKE IT.

October 2, 2001
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you have so many different posts on this relationship, he is pushing every one of your buttons, So, why are you buying into it? Is that what a good relationship looks like to you, suffereing, insecurity, fear, hanging, common girlfriend, get your head together, get your wits about you, and just say good bye to this gamer. Respect starts out in the beginning, like phone calls, integrity, demonstrated some of his character, and a preview to the future, so take your phone off the hook and go out and have fun.

October 3, 2001
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Molly,
once again you are right! I know what I need to do and find myself putting off what I need to do. Make sense? And for the life of me I can't figure out why. I hate change even if it would be for the better and I know this and everyone tells me the same thing.

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