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How to know if I'm a lesbian/bi?
December 17, 2001
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How do I know if I am a lesbian or bisexual? Those of you out there who are, how did you know? I find myself being emotionally attracted to both men and women. But I really don't know who I'm sexually attracted to. I am a 22 year old virgin. Not having any sexual experiences with anyone male or female, besides lots of kissing, it is very difficult to know what to attribute to an attraction for emotional intimacy, and what is a physical attraction. I am going through a tough spot in my life right now and I don't have any close friends near by. That makes me wonder if my attractions towards women are really only a need for a friend. On the other hand, I don't want to rule out the idea of homosexuality just becuse it isn't the social norm. I know that this probably sounds really dumb, but I'm really confused right now. Any help that any of you could offer would be very much appreciated. Thank you!

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December 17, 2001
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Do I need to have sex to know what my sexuality is?

December 17, 2001
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That makes sense. I like the idea of being with someone you love regardless of their sex. Did you know that you were bi-sexual before having sex with a woman? I'm sorry, you don't have to answer these questions. I just haven't had the opportunity to talk with another bi woman yet, and I have so many questions.
Thanks!

December 17, 2001
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🙂 thanks

December 17, 2001
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Chris-tina, I'm a bisexual woman, and I can tell you that I think I've always been a little attracted to women, but I married and am very happy with my husband. I enjoy sex with him very much, and just recently have had some encounters with a woman in a triangle. I find the sex with a woman quite different and very tantalizing. There is something about the softness that makes me crave it in a way that is different from the way I crave sex with my husband. I guess I crave the act of intercourse with him, but really love th softness and caressing with her. It's interesting. I agree with Blondie, though, in that I would give my love to someone deserving regardless of gender! Good luck discovering yourself -- and have fun doing it!

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