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how to get over being attracted to someone when I am happily married
October 29, 2014
9:10 pm
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I may have a slight obsession problem. I am 34. Married for 9+ years with a 3.5year old daughter. Beautiful family, no complaints.

What started out as a silly game, I smiled at this guy at th.e gym, and continued to smile for 3 months before he got my number. By then I was smitten. I love my husband. I was just flattered that someone can like me. Stroked my ego as they say. 

So after a few meetings, it is crystal clear he is looking to hook up, or have sex. He asked me to come home. I did not. I did feel very attracted to him. But I dont work that way. I cannot just go have sex. 

So my obsession is not about sex, even though I do find myself fantasizing about his body, like chest and height and biceps. I have been watching him work the weights for 3 months now. Something about the gym atmosphere that gets you excited. Still not to the extent I want to have sex with him.

I just want to know him more. He is very very different from the men I have met. I am supposed to be smart, well educated etc, work in hig tech, he is working in the post office as a front clerk! I mean no match what so ever. I probably earn more than double what he earns. Even when we talk, I can see he doesnt know a lot of things. BUt he comes across as very confident of himself. 

SO anyway, i dont know what this is. Sometimes it feels like I am head over heels in love with him. Like I want him to message me, I sit by the phone waiting for him to message him, check how often he checks his messages. It takes every single ounce of patience in me to wait for him to message me, he only messages like once a week. He is not a techie guy, unlike me who is always browsing on the phone. 

My problem is addiction obsession. I know that once he talks to me regularly I will be fine, the obsession will go away. But sometimes I seem to be testing myself, to go a little further. 

How can I end this. What started as a game is now hindering my life. Initially as I said I liked it, in the mundane life of a middle aged woman with a full time job and a young girl, this was  fun. I felt 20 again. The fluttering of butterflies in the heart etc. but now it is just painful. I just want him to talk to me like a friend. I want to know him more, better. Something strange and weird. 

Has anyone had this before? 


My husband is my best friend. So he knows I am obsessed with him. He is soooo nice that he has a listening ear. We have a long history, he is my friend first so he is amazing. You dont have to tell me that. 

Please dont curse me or dish out bad things at me. 

I have a problem with obsession, anxiety, addiction. My husband knows thats why he is supportive. I am just looking for a way to get through this.

October 30, 2014
2:53 am
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Please just keep your focus on the people that are truly who you should appreciate & focus on.  Your husband sounds like a great guy & it's not easy finding a keeper like that.  Flirting with the guy at the gym is cute, but if he wants some new sex & he is younger & especially if he knows you are a wife & a Mother, he is dangerous.  Keep a distance.  Do not let him have your telephone # & if you have, stop waiting or wanting his message or much more to do with him than the casual hello while at the gym.  Erase his # from your phone.  If you honour your marriage, you need to take stolk of your silly need for attention from this guy who is not your husband.  Unless of course your marriage is not working out & you think your child needs this guy to be her Dad.  Please appreciate what you have.

November 26, 2014
7:50 pm


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