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How many positives over negetives does it take?
October 15, 2001
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How many negetive traits can a woman tolerate, in a man, for his positive traits?
such as:
Attractive face, Spiritual heart, Sweet soul,
virgin body, experiencied life, complex personality, Intellectual mind, with an Honest, faithful, and devoted love..
VS ..Hairy nipples, back & bottom, and a crippled drive, as in driving a car.
His positives are rare to find in a man but his negetives are sometimes repulsive.
Do you think he is worth a keep? Or should he be tossed aside and left to die. I doubt many could over look his faults, so, he most likely wiil be alone. Many men can be found, but, few have his qualities.
Could this man ever be loved by a girl?

October 16, 2001
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Hmmm.... that's a really complex question! At this point for me (getting out of a relationship with a guy I've loved more than anyone ever before because the relationship/he emotionally hurts too much) I feel like the rule is - how does this guy make YOU feel? If you are honest with yourself, you will know if what you are getting out of it is real, healthy, good for you. When you say "...or should he be tossed aside and left to die" does that mean that you think you are taking care of him? that he would die without you? or that he would just 'die' in your mind? I've always found it surprising that men don't HAVE to be perfect or even near-perfect physically for me to find them extremely physically attractive. But the personality/emotional type things you really need to pay attention to and make sure you FEEL like they compliment YOU. Hope this helps.

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October 16, 2001
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The more you get to know the person the more you love, the more attractive that person becomes to you. In the long run looks do not matter. It also can work the other way around, the person could be the most beautiful person in the world and the more you get to know them the uglier they become.

October 17, 2001
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yeah but how long will he keep her? about a month untill she gets bored with him? I have been there. boredom comes pretty quickly. I have to be challenged in the mind also.

October 17, 2001
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I honestly never seem to be attracted to pretty boys right off the bat. They have to impress me in other ways or I'm almost turned off from wanting to engage more with them. How about that!? And just so you know, I am a very "attractive" woman. Hope that doesn't sounds vain, but I didn't want you to think my preference was for any other reason. Gr8NBED, I have no idea what your experiences are but they really don't ring true for me! I know gypsygirl is so right.

October 17, 2001
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p.s. i think it's the over-inflated egos that turn me off...and sometimes it's too apparent that overly handsom men have develped that at the expense of everything else.

October 17, 2001
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Sometimes, guys seem to have it all ways. The good looking ones get the girls they want, the rich, ugly ones, th powerful ones. Then they treat us like prize possessions. We then live in fear of them rejecting us for a better model. It's not fair!

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