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How is your memory
December 6, 2003
1:31 pm
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unhappy camper
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I find that my memory is very bad. I don't know why. I know the more distraught I am I can't remember things. I tend to look thing up as a method of getting by. I get embarassed at work when my boss asks me something simple about the business and I draw a blank, but run and look it up.

I would love to be able to find out why I don't remember things. It is holding me back in my job. It seems to be that I don't pay attention to things while I am doing them, so the details don't sink in.

For instance, I make a bank depost every day and when the boss asks if so-and-so paid yet, I draw a blank. I know when I am making up the deposit I am thinking of my hurts and worries.

I am not generally forgetful. I would say I am horribly distracted though. I'm not sure.....I have to see if I can make myself pay more attention to each task, if I can remember better.

I dwell so much in my mind on my troubles. I seem to need that. I linger at home in the mornings just worrying, crying, wishing, hurting that I get to work late. I waste time at work.

I'm just not in good shape emotionally and it shows. I tend to wow the boss in other ways so he feels I am still good to have around.

I have to watch myself more closely and see what I am doing wrong. I have to let go of my obessive worrying and stay in each day.

I miss my husband terribly, but feel dead against living with him again. So it's just torture. Why am I sitting at this computer right now on a Saturday afternoon before Christmas feeling sorry for myself when I should be out getting things done?

I am going to force myself to live.

December 6, 2003
1:46 pm
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hey UC....Yes, my memory is bad also. Then again, I can remember alot of details about the things that I find important to me.
Hugs dear UC

December 6, 2003
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It's DAYDREAMS. I live in daydreams, not the real world.

Bad daydreams and wishing daydreams. But I'm always there, not here.

In "I wish it were" land.

I don't like the real world.

I have to find a way back into the daily reality of life and pay attention.

December 6, 2003
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its not ok i forget sometimes and get frustrated

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