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How Far Will He Go!
December 16, 2002
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Hey my brother (Chris) is 12 yrs old and I’m 14 and my mum and dad mostly work together and now it’s the school holidays and that means most of the days its just me and my brother at home. We have fought most of our lives and he is taller than I am. We have had 2 fights about its b4eing 3 days of the school holidays and previously he has threatened me with a cricket bat and a knife. But we had an argument about his fancies, if you want to know read the thread (Worried About My Bother About Sex.) We resolved it and today he wanted something and we were going to go half’s and then Chris didn’t want to it and he was going to lye to my mum about it. By saying it was my fault and I was angry that he was going to do that. Well I grabbed the back of his neck and I said to him don’t blame me and then he hit me over the face with remote to the TV and then it smashed. Then he got a banana and he through it at me and it hit the wall and it went every where. He then was banging on my door and kicked it and then screaming at me and swearing at me. Then he was cleaning it up and then he was crying he said to me that he couldn’t breath and I didn’t know what to do I panicked and I was freaking out. I got him a drink of water and then I told him to sit out side and get fresh air and breath slowly. At this time my mum and dad will be home any minute well I quickly got the banana off the wall and every where and checked up on my brother and I fixed the remote. And they he was fine but still I didn’t know what to do. I don’t know I was crying and I’m pretty shook up about it. But I don’t know we will have a lot more and he is getting more aggressive and I don’t know how far he will go he might get than angry and use the knife or the cricket bat. Yes I have long nails and I tend to use them sort of a weapon and I don't know I loose my temper so quickly and I could do anything I’m really worried about this. I have told my mum and the knife and the cricket bat and she talks to my brother about it and then he still does it. Some times I’m scared and I lock myself in my room or some where he can’t get me and then I cry. And there is 6 weeks of holidays and I don't know what to do. I’m so scared to do anything any more I try and defend myself but he is getting a lot stronger and know he is throughing objects at me. Please help me.
Love you always Jess xoxoxo

December 16, 2002
4:36 pm
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Hi Jess for TLC,
I would tell my parents that you need someone to be with you while they are gone working. My daughters fought and I had to find separate places for them until we worked through their issues. I want you to be safe.

December 17, 2002
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I understnad where your coming from but my mum and dad have a business to run and they cant have time off beuce we need the money. and i thats is the problem and we fight even when thy are home. he bosses me around like i'm hid god do this do that and if i odnt he hits me or says things about mor yells at me and he gets his way and i cant control him at all. i just dont know what do to. any way my brother works with my dad sometimes which is good but still it happes any way and i get so stressed about it and it really angys me that i cant defend myself anymore i use to but i have go so weak and i have lost that strenth. i sit in my room and i leve him. he thinks he wons everything and he doesnt. i was vacuming today and i had to vacum in forund off the TV and he tured it right up so he can here but. he could here before that and i told him to turn it down and he said no and then i turned off the TV. i just dont know what to do should i talk to my mum about his behavour? love you always Jess xoxoxo

December 17, 2002
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I would. I was a single mom running my own business, but my children came first. Do they have daycare or activities to participate in somewhere? Even going to a friends where there is supervision. Sibling rivalry is normal to some extent, but violence isn't worth it.

December 22, 2002
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Well well i dont want to go to day care and my brother never does any where. the problem is i want to go some where and i dont have transport to get there see most of my friends live in the next suburb so that is a problem. mucch a i want a car so badly. but should i talk to my mum and dad about him? i really dont know what to do.

December 23, 2002
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Should i tel my parents what he is doing?

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