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September 13, 2005
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this is my first time and i am not sure what to do. do i just talk about how i'm feeling and people respond with advice??

September 13, 2005
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Just let your heart out there is no one here that knows you so it is confidential. Just let us know mnore about you. and why your hear and you can reply to any one that you want on any thred

September 13, 2005
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well...i've been pretty depressed for awhile lately...actually i'm pretty up and down but i just decided today to look on the computer for how to get help and so i thought i would give this a try..i just feel bad about this cuz who wants to listen to someone's problems when they don't even know them??

Oh yeah thanks for responding it is really nice of you..

September 13, 2005
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Welcome :o) - is something bothering you?

September 13, 2005
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hunny we are here to help each other its like one huge family and it helps to talk with people i know this i was new here a few months ago and i love it just please give us a try

September 13, 2005
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hi shaney,
it's not just one thing in particular its a lot of things..i'm just not happy with myself i guess..

am i doing this right? i just reply and anyone can respond to what i say?? how does someone know if i am talking to them or if i am talking to everyone?

September 13, 2005
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ok so i guess it basically comes down to me not being happy with myself but i am scared i am going to ruin all the relationships around me. i've been going through a lot lately and i find that i need so much attention from my boyfriend and i depend on him way too much and if he doesn't give me enough attention i get mad but i never used to be like this.

September 13, 2005
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Hey there - you can just ramble on and about yourself, but if there's something that you want to say to someone in particular, then just address them specifically. Read some other threads (some may be titled "new here") if you want to see how people go about things. If people feel the need to reply to your situation, they will, if they have something to offer. Just start typing away!

September 13, 2005
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how old are you hunny?

September 13, 2005
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First of all, what have you been going through? How long have you and your bf been together and what type of relationship do you have? Is he supportive?

September 13, 2005
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i just feel like i'm a mess. i'm super sensitive and really hard on myself. i have always had this problem with being alone...i hate it if i am alone i'm on the phone or something like that...i would just rather have someone with me even to do my errands but lately i'm confused i don't want to be around people but i dont want to be alone either. i feel like i am just so difficult.

September 13, 2005
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have you ever been in counseling?

September 13, 2005
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i am 24 and my boyfriend and i have been on and off for about 6 years but it was because we were still in highschool but now we are a lot better and have grown up a little more. we are pretty serious and we moved in together a little over two months ago. he is extremely supportive but it is hard for him to understand me and what i'm going through because he lived a sheltered life while i have been through so much.

September 13, 2005
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i know i need counseling but i don't have insurance and probably can't afford it...thats actually what i was looking for when i came across this site...i had like 3 sessions with a counselor years ago when my parents got a divorce and that is pretty much when all my problems started..i was a junior in highschool but since then it has been problem after problem

September 13, 2005
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dont think you are alone in this i understand maybe not the exact experiences but i have been through a hell of a lot myself. So please feel free to share

September 13, 2005
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Can you remember a time that you didn't feel insecure about being alone? Did something happen that made you start to feel that way?

September 13, 2005
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sensitive - here is a good place to start. There is counseling available on a sliding scale, please check around. And maybe a support group would help you. I don't know what your situation is, but there are many support groups...

I waited 15+ years to do something. Please don't wait. You need to take care of yourself. You've been through a lot already, and from my experience it doesn't stop on it's own. And it doesn't just go away.

September 13, 2005
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cesera,
how do i find out about the support groups? i don't really know where to look and i don't really have the money to pay for the counseling..

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