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how do u learn to trust urself
December 17, 2003
6:27 am
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How do you begin to discover who u are and learn to trust urself after years of deflecting attention away from urself onto others so people dont see the big gaping emotional holes and after a lifetime of being told ... :this isnt you.. your feelings are wrong, ur imagining things, ur exaggerating, ur being overdramatic. Stop being a drama queen etc. Where do I begin to even know what I want and need when everything I've done and the choices I have made have been wrapped up in somebody else's needs and wants.

December 17, 2003
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Good question Beej

I guess you look into yourself and think about what makes your heart sing - start with what makes you feel good, what brings you joy - it may be something you did as a kid - something that you haven't done in a while - then find the energy to actually do it - even if you think it is completely stupid - and see what happens.

Just an idea, H

December 17, 2003
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Good question. Sometimes we think
that we are honest with ourselves
and we are in denial. Sometimes
we ignore clear signs of problems
in our relationships. I guess the
best way is by doing the work necessary to develop an emotionally
and spiritually healthy sense of
inner self. That's like trying
to hit the lottery, but it is
possible if we focus on ourselves
and look INSIDE for happiness. If
and when I learn how to do this I
know that I'll have learned to
trust myself.

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