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how do i overcome my sexual impulses
May 30, 2006
2:04 am
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i'm a 26 year old male and married. I have a problem with having thoughts about the women i'm dealing with in everyday life. maybe im wanting females to find me attractive. i guess it's desire of mine... however when i feel like i'm being attractive my desires want something more, probaly in a sexual way but not in a loving way like i feel for my wife. i've acted on these impulses before, and have tried to act on them before. my wife and i have talked about it and it has helped, i feel like i'm not hiding anything from her. though i dont want to hurt her feelings, it helps us to talk because it could help me deal with these thoughts that i get about women. i'm trying to find God in my life in between all of this. and my wife is being so supportive that i want to prove to her and God how loyal my heart is by devoting it. i feel like i have moments where if given the oppertunity i would choose evil instead of doing the right thing and push everything good around myself away. if my faith were stronger i know i would resist thoughts and temptations, without any problems.

May 30, 2006
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Hunny everyone i mean everyone has thoughts and temptations and it can be difficult. No one is perfect. Have you tryed seeing a counsler about this??? It might help. By the way welcome to tha AAC.

May 30, 2006
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listen, you are not abnormal, i have the opposite problem, im a female and for some reason, depression, whatever, i dont have to have it. I wish i did. I guess in a way its ok cause my soon to be ex, is incarcerated and the b/f i have now, i cant rely on, makes a big impact on sex life.
But for you, welcome first, and either seek help, whether discussing with counselor which most men dont or good friend, religious person?? or just keep coming back. Maybe something is missing in your life?

May 30, 2006
11:47 am
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You sound like a normal 26 year old. If you are concerned that you will take things to far, or that you think about things to much. Just go to an SA (Sex Addicts) meeting and see if you fit the profile. I suspect that you will discover that you are normal.

On the other hand, you need to be certain and be respectful to your wife.

Cary

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