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How do I get over shyness??
August 7, 2007
7:06 pm
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Randomwomen2
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I get so frustrated with myself out of all the times and places to be shy I have to get shy in the bedroom with my husband. Oh I get mad. How do I get over this? Does anyone have any ideas?

August 7, 2007
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Gosh I think this something you wish you could be but you are not. Is your husband complaining about it? Maybe he likes you the way you are, shyness included. Not everyone can be aggressive. To some aggressive is a turnoff. If you are getting your needs met overall then ok. Who says you have to be wonderwoman in the bedroom? What you do in your bedroom is between you and him and not comparable to anyone else. If you are mad who are you mad at him or you? Don't be something you are not, be true to yourself. Then the other option would be if you truly felt this horrible and your husband is not happy then seek couple counseling. It is important you are comfortable and he is too, that is all that counts. Talk to your hubby most of all, he is your best buddy and will understand.

August 8, 2007
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I agree with Taj, talk to your husband and see what he thinks about all this. You can also try to see what is underlying the shyness. Are you afraid of being judged? do you have body issues?

August 8, 2007
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I was going to say what fantas said....maybe its body issues....heck, i am like that all the time, covering up certain body parts so he can't see them....even though he loves me naked and my body, its me who has the issues, and then yes, that makes me shy, cuz there are certain ways i can't move or have him see me.

Do you think you are shy cuz of body issues, or maybe just shy cuz of underlying feelings and not willing to open up and just be your sexual self?

August 8, 2007
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Have a few glasses of wine. 🙂

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