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How do I deal with life?
April 2, 2001
2:27 pm
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I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 years now and am starting to get really frustrated with him. I am certain that this is the man that I want to spend the rest of my life with, but lately we have been arguing alot about really stupid things. We are both the babies in our families and kind of used to getting it our own way. We are both pretty hard-headed about our ideas and although we both try to be open to new ideas and sensitive to eachothers feelings,I feel that I give into him alot more that he does to me.

Lately I have found myself getting jealous of his other friends and wanting to control is every move. I am not sure how to handle this. I HATE feeling this way! I know that I am only making things hard for both of us and that I am probably driving him away from me, but I don't know what to do or how to control these feelings. We talked about taking some time away from eachother to see if this is really what we want, but I really love him. I really enjoy spending time with him and can't imagine my life without him.

April 7, 2001
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Read "Help Me Please x 2" postings to make sure you don't end up like this.
Good luck. I think your mind may be telling you something your heart can't. Good luck.

April 8, 2001
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hi i really dont know where to start but pumpkin25 i feel the same way cause i dont like alot of my boyfriend friends but if i dont like them then he will always say he dont care of what i think he has to go his way alot so i learned to let him have his way cause alot of times i dont feel like argueing with him so i just give him his way i know its wrong but he doesnt care what i think as long as he is always right and im wrong as usual.i have been with him for 2 years and i love him very much and i dont want to loose him so maybe to help myself is get some counseling again i use to be in counseling but he had a problem with it cause i would have the car and he wouldnt so i had to stop going just to make him happy i wish i have not stopped going cause it was helping me a little and i felt better getting it off my chest,but to me it seems no matter what i do its never goood enough for him as usual.i dont have any friends cause he said my friends are no good so my friends stay away from me i hate that but i deal with it my way,im not working right now but i can tell its bothering him that im not working he doesnt unerstand what happen at work he thinks it was my fault that i have a problem with one manager for 6 months and the other managers wouldnt do anything about it then i came in late one day cause the other manager ok it and the manager i had problems with didnt like it so he started going off on me yelling and then he blocked me in the dairy cooler and i said 2 bad words thats only because he pushed me into it then the store director wouldnt call the other manager to verify that he knew i wasnt coming in one day until a certain time and he ok it so he told me i was suspended for 5 days then i came in to talk and the store director fired me cause i said 2 bad words but the other manager got away with it as usual thats how this company runs the managers dont do wrong,so right now my union is fighting for me trying to save my job but if not then i will get another job see thats where my boyfriend doesnt understand that it was not my fault i got fired but in his mind i fired because i didnt take the shit from the manager i know what it feels like having someone you love very much and you want everything to go your way sometimes but it doesnt always go that way my boyfriend tells me i need to go see a psyco because he thinks im this very bad person but yet i have helped him out alot and covered his butt when he wrote bounced checkes he doesnt apperciate anything i do for him he has to go his way only so i give him his way just to make him happy even though i know its wrong. thank you de

April 8, 2001
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well i think you are trying to make things complicated here ...its very normal to have those quarrels...maybe this is just some kind of challenge for you to be more wiser in handling your relationship with him....take some time to look deeply into yourself & keep trying to understand him better....perhaps this will help you

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