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March 12, 2006
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Oh dear been there done that.

March 12, 2006
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Yes, I already did. He had to help me though, which made it 10 times harder. He's at that age when thay say and do so many funny things. Like, today he said, "I not say sorry because my mouth is too heavy" I had to write that one down.

March 12, 2006
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HAHA he sounds so cute...what a blessing for you ya know.....
the plumbing things....well water should not come from the ceiling, fridge or out of the toilet...period......flush is supposed to mean it goes away....hehehe....just ya wish life was like that " flush......its gone."

March 13, 2006
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That's funny. Yah, I know what you mean. My little ones dad is missing out on the best days. He's in a lot of trouble because of the drugs. Didn't show up for court, now he's running, like an dummy. He keeps digging a deeper and deeper hole. I wish he'd get caught so he would have to get clean.

March 13, 2006
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Hi all! Keep those children happy and safe. They are our means to survivng our pains.

The smile on a little ones face can make almost all the pain disappear.

Have bright playdough day!

March 16, 2006
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I asked for help from my church a few weeks ago and now I have an appointment for tomarow with one of the church counslers.

March 16, 2006
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A great step Random........A church is a good place to straighten the issues in your life out.

I wish you well.

March 16, 2006
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thank you lost. I am very nervous though. I have been so tired today I have slept so much and I have a migraine. I took some tylonal and Im going to take a hot bath then go to bed providing my boys let me

March 16, 2006
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Random,

I didn't have a chance to read this whole thread, but just wanted to pop in and tell you how bad I feel. You did not deserve any of this. I wish I could take some of your pain away from you. Your sweetness and thoughtfulness shine right through this computer and it hurts me that someone could hurt you. Sending many hugs your way. By the way, I have the same name as you!!!

Jewel

March 17, 2006
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It is a very long thread and thank you. Im dealing with it the best that I can. And today im trying to get help from church. I slept better lastnight so I feel a ton better today. Still very nervous but hopefully it will go well

March 17, 2006
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Yeah, Random!!

I see your comments here and there, and I feel so badly about your nightmares -- so sorry I am not "around" when you have them.

Sleep IS a great healer, isn't it? I am battling a nasty chect cold, and cannot stop coughing at night. O so tired the next day. At least your children sleep well and are chirpy, right??

I just read something recently about people either walling up their emotions so they feel NOTHING or letting their emotions run amok and washing over everything.

I wish you the peace of finding a balance in between. Hang in there.

March 17, 2006
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Random,

Glad you slept well last night. That can make a world of differences to how you feel. I hope things go well at the church.

Jewel

March 17, 2006
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I wish to be there to give a real (((HUG))) but it has to go the cyber way, with all my heart.

Remember when you were a kid if you were only serious and crying or had moments of joy? I suggest you try to remember as many as you can of those good moments because I have a huntch (no kids myself) that children bounce bad from misery to heaven. They can pick up crumbles and make they into a feast of fun. So many kids, on the other side, lead a good (socioeconomic) life but can appreciate their emotional life with nannies, and woever, but not with parents.

Remember the eople to whom you were so special and sweet. There must have been one. Try to hang to that before sleeping. I hope this helps. (((HUGS)))

March 17, 2006
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crap that just made me remember when i was probably about 5 I was seeing a babysitter. I would go early in the morning and she would have me lay on her bed I remeber I hated it. I think that something happend there. Anyway church went well today I have started seeing a counsler there who knows a lot about sexual abuse. She is thinking about starting a womens group there too I see her every week now for free. She suggested i read the book called "The Wounded Heart Hope for adult victims of childhood sexual abuse" its by Dr.Dan B. Allender. Its a christian view on how to heal so im going to try it out.

March 18, 2006
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Im going to start reading it tomarrow

March 18, 2006
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it seems like a very insightful book it explanes a lot of my tendencies

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