Avatar
Please consider registering
guest
sp_LogInOut Log In sp_Registration Register
Register | Lost password?
Advanced Search
Forum Scope


Match



Forum Options



Minimum search word length is 3 characters - maximum search word length is 84 characters
sp_TopicIcon
How come no one noticed?
March 11, 2006
12:12 am
Avatar
Guest
Guests

I keep "crossing" through conversation here. I think I am too tired and should think about some things before I post again. Sweet dreams to you both.

March 11, 2006
12:13 am
Avatar
Randomwomen2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 9
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

goodnight sweetie I hope you sleep well

March 11, 2006
12:14 am
Avatar
codyrn
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Oh I do too.... I carry a sack like "santa claus"... BUT my question for you is ...did you pick this burden up on your own ...and take ownership of it..... OR do you feel like it is attached to you ....becasue ...really you can release it.......especially if it is not yours...... and even if it is attached...you can still release it...

I guess I am trying to let you be free in your release ....of extra baggage.....do not be afraid.......

March 11, 2006
12:21 am
Avatar
Randomwomen2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 9
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I need to go to bed sweetie my boys will be up around am. I will check in tomarrow. Thanks for all the support I relly do apreciate it.
Love
Julie

March 11, 2006
12:22 am
Avatar
codyrn
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

That is my name 2

March 11, 2006
12:23 am
Avatar
Randomwomen2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 9
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

LOL thats funny

March 11, 2006
10:15 am
Avatar
Randomwomen2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 9
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

goodmorning everyone

March 11, 2006
10:16 am
Avatar
sird
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Morning Random! How are you today?

March 11, 2006
10:23 am
Avatar
Randomwomen2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 9
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I dont know yet. I am so damned tired. How about you?

March 11, 2006
10:26 am
Avatar
codyrn
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

good morning

March 11, 2006
10:28 am
Avatar
sird
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I'm at work. 🙁
Did you have a restless night? I still have a problem trying to shut my head off.

March 11, 2006
10:29 am
Avatar
Randomwomen2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 9
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I am just not a morning person but my boys are. Im more of a night owl. Good morning codyrn

March 11, 2006
10:35 am
Avatar
sird
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Random,
There is a thread "help" towards the top. It may give you both the opportunity to gain insight and share some of your strength. Just a thought.

March 11, 2006
10:36 am
Avatar
Randomwomen2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 9
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I just posted there even before I read this LOL

March 11, 2006
10:54 am
Avatar
codyrn
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Random,

Just read your post....very nice. Do you ever post things and in a way are also saying them to yourself ? I tend to do that ....just a little affirmation for others and for me 🙂

I guess there is healing in helping others and in helping ourselves.

March 11, 2006
10:58 am
Avatar
Randomwomen2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 9
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I try and take my advice but I just cant seem to do it I dont know why. There is just more power in it for me when other people say it. Does that make any since?

March 11, 2006
11:01 am
Avatar
codyrn
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I totally understand....I try and advice myself....but I guess I have trust issues with not only myself...but others and so it hard for me to give myself advice.
It's been good to go to a counselor...and I have gone in the past ...but always ..."fired" them ...because I did not want to hear what they had to say..... I am now ready to hear it tho .....now I am ready.

March 11, 2006
11:03 am
Avatar
Randomwomen2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 9
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

my counslers dont have much to say. I end up really board. Like the one that I have now it just drives me nuts

March 11, 2006
11:08 am
Avatar
codyrn
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

My counselor told me she is not going to tell me what "to do" ...which at first I thought was just plain stupid. But what she is trying to do is get me to make decisions for myself....and not take "the most recent flippant idea " from someone else that comes along....but instead ...to really listen and hear what is or has been said or done...process it ...and be wise.

Sometimes it's just too much to think about ...but then again sometimes it is freeing to know that I have a choice of how I feel....does that make sense ?

March 11, 2006
11:12 am
Avatar
Randomwomen2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 9
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

what if you dont know how to feel. what is exceptable and what is not? How to finaly become angry. How to finaly feel a relise. I dont know how to do those things and my counsler wasnt helping

March 11, 2006
11:18 am
Avatar
codyrn
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

i don't know how to feel at times either..and I get angry at the wrong times.....i can't seem to look at my situation and be angry at it....but instead fly off the handle at silly stuff....so my anger is there...just revealed inappropriatly.

March 11, 2006
11:21 am
Avatar
Randomwomen2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 9
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I yell at my children way to much, but I am trying to stop that

March 11, 2006
11:26 am
Avatar
codyrn
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

yeah me too... I have stopped alot of that yelling..... it really fixed nothing....but made everyone as "on guard" as I was....ya know.

We drug tested both teenagers a month ago and they both tested + pot. I did not yell , but simply stated that if I was supporting your existance on earth in any way you would be clean...or you would support yourself.

My husband is suspicious of them becasue he is a recovering addict... I am suspicious of all of them at times...to be honest.

March 11, 2006
11:32 am
Avatar
must_be_me
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Randomwomen2,
Thankyou for posting this hun and replying to my post you have given me strength - i dont feel sorry for u - not sounding nasty - because to feel sorry for you would be to feel sorry for who you are now and I feel you understand me so I am thankfull to god for giving me you to help me. I do have sympathy for you - please don't mistake that but you are a wonderful women to post this - i know I dont know you in real life but you post in my thread and yours has given me strength and I feel like I want to hug you so much - thankyou
all my love darlin,
must_be_me

March 11, 2006
11:48 am
Avatar
Randomwomen2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 9
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
100sp_Permalink sp_Print

I posted back to you sweetie

Forum Timezone: UTC -8
Most Users Ever Online: 247
Currently Online:
45
Guest(s)
Currently Browsing this Page:
1 Guest(s)
Top Posters:
onedaythiswillpass: 1134
zarathustra: 562
StronginHim77: 453
free: 433
2013ways: 431
curious64: 408
Member Stats:
Guest Posters: 49
Members: 110907
Moderators: 5
Admins: 3
Forum Stats:
Groups: 8
Forums: 74
Topics: 38534
Posts: 714189
Newest Members:
819Zeed, odin83, sendlv, ViolentFighterBrownCaveman, kbrfDazy, traceyob69
Moderators: arochaIB: 1, devadmin: 9, Tincho: 0, Donn Gruta: 0, Germain Palacios: 0
Administrators: admin: 21, ShiningLight: 572, emily430: 29

Copyright © 2019 MH Sub I, LLC. All rights reserved. Terms of Use | Privacy Policy | Cookie Policy | Health Disclaimer