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horsefly needs totalk to a friend
October 31, 2009
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Dear Friend or Friends, My son gave me a laptop. I am just not paying learning how to use it. I am not able to use a regular computer anymore. My condition got worst. I just now found out I lost my worker comp's appeal after nearly four years. But I have my little fifth wheel and sister and I have our own place. It has been hard. I have struggled through alot and now I get 9 epidural shots ayear, Plus they are talking about installing a demerol pump in my shoulder. The son of bitches got away with not paying me a dime. They offer a small settlement and everyone didn't want me to take it. I didn't ...I lost all. A year ago I got busted for possession od pot. A small amount. My doctor said he would prescribe to me if he could. I have lost so much weight from stress and I am just now feeling beter. It is hard surving on my check. I have been emotionally a mess but I am coming around. So here I am back with my horsebites from hell. Missed you All, Hope someone remembers me. Thanks , horsefly

November 1, 2009
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HI Horsefly!!!!!

Of course you are remembered. You have been missed.

I'm so sorry to hear about what happened, but at least you and Sister have your own place.

So glad you are back... big hugs to you and sister.

November 1, 2009
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Hay HF, I bet everyone in the coffeehouse would be happy to see you. If nothing else, I'd love to have a cup of tea with ya. Anam has the fire going and the place is real cozy.

November 1, 2009
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Chelonia, I have lost alot of material I have sent , Been dealing with trouble shooters.Missed you my friend, hf Iwill try tosent this.

November 1, 2009
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I got this post and I look forward to seeing you around now that you have a lap top.

Sending you hugs and healing thoughts

November 1, 2009
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Chelonia, I hope I have got everything right. eeen physical therap I have wrote so much to you. I have so much to say....turned out my disks had herniated. Yes, and I hung out with exN boyfriend abd horse friends .....what a story. Been to physical therapy 90 times. I least I am in pain management now. Injections instead of those pills , destroying my colon. I think I have this fixed now. I will be alright, it has been a tough year again, but I am doing better now. I still get lonely alot. I am joining YMCA soon. Just to start getting a life and I have to excercise my muscles or lose them. So I am going to survive. I have made it this far. Letmesentthis , Your Friend, horsefly

November 1, 2009
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Hi HF,

Wow what an adventure. I'm glad to hear you are receiveing pain managment, it sounds very painful.

I recently joined a yoga center and am having a good time. Its as much for being around people as it is for the exercise. I think joining the Y is a great idea.

Its getting really late and I'm at work tomorrow, so I better go finish a cup of tea in the Coffeehouse, then get my butt to bed.

Its so good to have you back

November 1, 2009
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Chelonia , i tried to take my butt to sleep but ihave insomia alot. I am scared to take any medication unless it is what i have to have, I had a seizure on one they gave. So I am practicing my computer skills for a little longer. But I look better than ever before. I lost the weight I gain , but I really am a little toosmall now......but I will gain it once I join tthe ymca. They have warm swimming pool, yoga classes and pilates, I will probably get a cheap rate because of my disabities and income. I just found out this week I lost the worker comp case again. But I am not taking it any further,,,the stress was just too much. I actually passes up a settlement......eveeryone said for me to. So I need clousure, If thye can keep me out of pain and I work my body I might be able to get atleast a part time job. I would love that...just like you say, just to be around people again....instead of doctors. Olus my haircut is the best I have had in years, A friend got me that for my birthday, Soooo I am not finished yet, I am actually interested in men again. I use to have so many problems ....I could have cared less after the last one, Can't to tell you what I did to him..........you know after years and years and years of his shit. I got him back and dumped him . WHat astory.....too tired to tell now..but it is sad but I got to be the asshole for once. I didn't plan it I am just not stupid anymore. I wish Nappy could hear about it........she would be so happy for me. But I want to thank you chelonia for welcoming me back. I have always respected and admired you so much. I will have a lot of reading to do once I get this certain computer figured out. I have to check up on a few around. Well, I am going to try to sleep again. So good night my friend, horsefly

November 1, 2009
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Hi Horsefly,
So good to see you back and know that you now have access. I'm glad to hear you joined the YMCA, I have heard that swimming is great exercise for people in pain. I am going to start back to the gym tomorrow after being gone for 4 months!

November 1, 2009
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Horsefly!
It's so great to see you here. I was just about done with aac, but now that you are here I will check back on your thread.

I am so sorry that you lost the lawsuit. That sucks. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other, HF.

I recommend breathing exercises for you, they help so much with pain. Try this one: close your ears with your thumbs, inhale, and on your exhale make a humming sound. Keep doing this as long as you can comfortably.

November 1, 2009
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HOOORRSSEEEFLLYYY!!!!! I am so glad to see you. Yes, I miss our Tell It Like It Is Nappy, too.

Soofoo, don't leave us.

Bitsy

November 1, 2009
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Hi Horsefly- sorry to hear about your loss and pain. I am happy to hear you have a laptop. I hope you can log on and let us know how you are.

November 1, 2009
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Dear dear Horsefly: So good to see you back, my friend. I am so sorry to hear of your continued sruggles and that you lost your case. I swear asometimes I think there really is no justice in this world and the good people really suffer for it.

I like your attitude though- you sound good. You sound strong and ready to start a new life. Please stick around, whenever you can. SD

November 1, 2009
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((pegasus))!

Welcome back to the battle born, worn, torn and forlorn!

We all get owned in our own ways. How do ya like new age serf-dumb!? Can't say i enjoy it much either! Don't let the bastards keep ya down tho. ;0)

Sounds like it's been rough. Being "busted" was unnecessary.

They are denying you the BEST medicine and making you a criminal for using it! Shame on our "leaders" and the nazi police.HA!.U know me. I could just go on about a lot of injustice but i need a break today ( so does everybody else)

Keep posting!

November 1, 2009
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Dear, Dear Horsefly!!!

Gosh, I was happy to see you back on the threads! You have been deeply missed, Old Friend.

Hard to believe that Nappy has been gone for over one year now. I keep hoping that she will return, also, one of these days. Isn't it amazing how we never forget the friendships we form on these threads?

Some of the newer posters on these threads think I am kinda harsh because I will speak my mind. They should have met our girl, Nappy, eh? Talk about "straight shooter?" She always told it like it was with no sugar-coating.

I am so sorry that you lost that lawsuit. Seems like there isn't any justice in this world. I am also sorry that you were advised to decline the settlement. Dang. Hindsight, eh? Hopefully, you are going to recover sufficiently to be able to do some sort of part time work which you will actually enjoy.

And I am glad to learn that Sister is well.

I am looking forward to talking with you more. Bring us up to date on how you finally evened the score with "the jerk." Bless his narcissistic socks, eh?

Hugs!

Ma Strong

November 1, 2009
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(((((horsefly!!!))))

I understand what you have gone through (except for the horse bites) and are still going through. I have missed you, Pegasus, and had been worried about you!

There are a lot of us that are practically in the same boat that you are... I know I am.

Sometimes (or maybe that is oft-times), if people cannot make money off of you.. they don't want you around - or, at least, that is the way it seems to me!

I AM glad to hear from you... but sad about the circumstances and hard times.

November 1, 2009
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OH MY DEAR DEAR FRIENDS!!! You have made me cry with joy, I am still dealing with this trouble shooter........he calls back in 10 minutes.......got to go for now.....but I think we have the trouble resolved. I will know soon. I want to talk and hear about all of you. Love to All, horsefly

November 1, 2009
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I honestly don't know what to say. ((Chelonia)) ((Razor)) (((soofoo)) ((ma strong)) ((Bitsy)) ((sdesigns)) ((destiny)) ((Msguilded)) ((RED)) Each of you are so special to me in your own way. I didn't even think I would be back......kinda thought I was going to end up in a straight jacket. But I am so happy you are all still here. You all do not even know how much you helped me. I would have never had made it this far. I get very little support in real life. People tend to be critical and the doctors are like jack in the boxes......scary. But a few friends and a few family in real life help.......honestly, you guys help me feel better more than them. I am out of pain finally for the first...well I will always have chronic pain.....but not a 10 for inflammation. So I just can't believe it. They can stick a needle the size of my leg in my back anytime....to get relieve I just found 2months ago. I AM STARTING TO GET emotional. I"ll be back ...love you all, HF

November 1, 2009
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(((((HF)))))

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November 1, 2009
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(((((sd))) Back at you. My son read in the paper I lost the case Oct 8 in another town. My lawyer has not returned my calls. The case was worth 2 hundred thousand. the settlement was 15 thousand. Now I have to send a certified letter to him for not notifiying his client....shit, 3 0r 4 years in court.....could I even handle the supreme court? DuH? Still figuring............This the huge case of ole evil eyes.......sad though insurance companies actually let people die without paying all the time.....sure you know that. I have just blocked it like I have doors in my mind.....I keep that door closed. But this week i have to do something. Of course I am not sure of what, Thanks SD for your support, HF

November 1, 2009
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Dear Razor, How are you doing ? I can't find you. So I hope you post me back sometime. I would start thread but then I always string myself out, I can't remember the name of your old thread. I have missed you. I now have my own place to paint if I want to. Love, HF

Soofoo , You are my unforgotten soulmate. I will never forget you watching my back........kinda like you could read my mind or something. Please check in when you are able, or start a thread.......I would love to hear how you are doing. Love, HF

Red, I can find you , that's right I am stalking you around. tehe Well, I have my cave, shotgun, dog, truck.......not ready for a horse yet. Love, HF

MsG, Missed the hell out of you. You are a person with a way with words for sure.........I can find you too. Love, Pegasus

Bitsy, I have missed you too......I will find you too, Love, HF

Destiny / I opened up the corral for you, Love.........the fly

Ma, I found you.

Chelonia, I know where you are and trying to catch up.

Thank You All for welcoming back. Hope to see you posting . HF

November 2, 2009
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If you can appeal your case thru the Supreme Court, DO IT.

Love,

Ma Strong (totally in your court)

November 2, 2009
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Ma Strong, I am having another unable to sleep again night. I do that alot. But what I don't get why my lawyer won't contact me. I called his office everyday last week too. See I just found outlast week when my son came to see me. So if it was in the paper on Oct 8 ( I know because I called the newspaper too). Well it is now November. My lawyer has not spoken or wrote anything. I don't get it. I paid him. Usually, you have about 30 days to appeal. So this is driving me crazy.......he is in another town. I could go there buthe might not be there. I have never heard of this before. WHY has he not called me?

See.......I am in the dark. He has totally blown me off. He has all my court records too. So I just assume he can't appeal it or won't want to bother.......it all depends on the answer from the court of appeals that by the paper I lost. I called and finally by thursday I was hysterical to his receptionist. So she is pissed. Called Friday left a message sobbing. This is cruel and usual to leave me hanging,........I have waiting over a year for this decision. Not to mention the other years you remember. I am tired. What has this world come to. So all I know to do is write a letter to him and have it certified so if I never hear from him.......atleast I can prove he never contacted me. Frustrating as it is. IT SUCKS

Hope you got my message on your thread. I will probably write you and tell how wicked I have become....what I did to the ex (YES the one warn me to stay away from. Well, you were right I got hurt again. But I got him back......crazy story. If I go there now I will never sleep. Anyway, that is the lowdown. Sure glad you are the one in my court......and still here. I still miss Nappy.....I talk about her to my friends like I knew her in real life. I messed up on this writingpage. Ma not sure how but I am closing and sending.......Love, horsefly

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Horsefly,

I read some of the advice you have given on the other threads and I would have never known you are going through so much.

My heart and prayers go out to you and I hope that this group of people fill your life with hope and faith and that you will be able with the help of the almighty get back on your feet.

Build up your strength first because you are important and try to find good legal advice.

As for the medicines, be careful because as you said yourself they could really waste you. Try to find out what the side effects are for each and if they mix well with each other.

Maybe you could substitute other forms of therapy or natural health products for some of them.

But first talk to your doctor and get a second or even third opinion. Sometimes leaving you on a prescription drug benefits the doctors (financially, kick-backs) then the patient.

The best of luck and I will definitely keep you in my prayers, if it alright with you.

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Horsefly I posted to you on your other thread.

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