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hopeful codependent
November 24, 2006
12:53 am
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i am a wife and mother and i'm 2 years into recovery with my husband, an alcohol and meth user and me as a codep. after the first year i thought that, i could handle whatever will be coming. but lately, i began to feel restless, anxious and even depressed with no clear reason at all. i cannot explain what i am feeling and i find it hard to understand myself at time. I feel frustrated, i feel that my husband does not open up much with me. I feel that i had to be on guard because something might be worong and i would be the lat one to se it.i feel miserable and its affecting my relationship with my husband and my child.

i guess, i have never got over my enabling tendencies. i just cant help it! right now, i am back in therapy and has joined the al-anon. i realized now that recovery is a lifelong process and that it does not end when your loved one is already sober.

i guess i still have to settle so many issues within myself...

November 24, 2006
11:12 am
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It is a life long journey sweetheart. Have you thought about some marrige counseling. That might help you and your husband. My husband and I go and it has been such a blessing to us. We were on the brink of divorce 15 months ago and now we couldnt be happier

November 24, 2006
3:10 pm
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this is your thread - so why not take a chance and get the most out of it while you´re here ... there are alot of people here who´d like to listen to you and share experiences with you ... all i can say is ... having too much on your plate at the same time can get quite overwhelming ...

what is your question (if u have one ...) .. ?

what do you feel is most important now to talk about here on this board ?

what would you like people here to know about you above all ?

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