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HOLIDAYS ARE DEPRESSING
December 23, 2002
11:08 am
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THIS IS THE FIRST HOLIDAY IN 4 YEARS WITHOUT MY HUSBAND SEEING COUPLES TOGETHER IS REALLY TOUGH I WILL BE GLAD WHEN IT IS OVER BAH HUMBUG

December 23, 2002
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Funny, I'm contemplating this as being the last holiday with my husband...isn't that ironic...

I see those same couples together and I think the secret to their happiness is that they aren't married.

December 23, 2002
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Or they are cheating on someone else... Jeez, who pissed in my wheaties this morning?

December 23, 2002
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I used to really hate the holidays too...especially when I was a kid. It's because holidays seemed "fake" to me. Everybody is SUPPOSED to be happy. It's forced...not natural.

December 23, 2002
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Holidays suck. Is that a swear word?
I always have so many expectations of how I'd like them to be and they never are. Attitude is so important.
We choose our attitudes.

Sunday, hubby & I are driving and we see a sign "Free Trees" If you need one, take one. I thought that it was way cool....so I now have a tree. It still doesn't fill the void.

December 23, 2002
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Hey Everyone,

I hope we can all make the holidays special for ourselves, despite any chaos or sadness in our lives. I myself will light a candle and say a prayer for world peace and inner peace.

I also have one side-note... I keep reading on so many threads people's concerns about "swear words"... what's that about?

That's not in the guidelines! Do you read anywhere in the guidelines where it says not to swear?

It's okay to swear, just not using aggressive language at each other/attacking each other using any words... swear words are just words.

December 23, 2002
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I am trying my best here to make this Christmas a good one for my boy. I want him to have good memorys at home of Christmas. Here it is the 23rd and I have a damn Christmas tree in my kitchen so the snow can melt off of it so we can get it up sometime today, however my son is more worryed about me taking him out duck hunting or to go for a ride in the mountains so I can get stuck in the snow if not slide off the side of a cliff or something. I don't have one of his gifts wrapped but he says "oh mom you can do it tomorrow" I say "I am not freaking off tomorrow son". "I have today"! In my drinking days he pretty much got his way! Has anyone seen the movie "28days" where the mom at the start of the movie that died, Takes her girls snow sledding at night into traffic. Well I use to be kind of like that mom. He wants that wild and crazy mom back and I just want to put the tree up, and wrap the gifts. He had two snow days last week, so has already been home way to long. To think I still have two more weeks to go!

December 23, 2002
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but then i have alot to be thankful for it will probably be the happiest holidays with my family i have finally gotten strong enough to get away from someone that has been so damaging to me

December 23, 2002
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i think holidays will "suck" for people who r in love, hurt by a love one. but christmas is nice u guys!!! think of it as bringing relatives close together.

good for u pam g fu.

today's supposed to be my anniversary with my guy 🙁 tomorrow christmas eve and wednesday. then the 31 new years. and then school...NOOO!!

December 23, 2002
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Angie, had a client today who vented about how her kid yelled I hate you when your clean, oh well honey this ain't about you, is what my advice is. No one likes change. But we all deal with it and adapt, he will to. Sober to him which he doesn't know means life as he has gotten used to it, like unwrapped presents waiting to be presented, and not foster care. Kids are selfish and its our job to teach them that the world isn't always going in their direction, even though us adults are just getting it at 40 something, no ?
he will get over it.

Pam, you want Sybil? We could start a new kind of e-bay mates for Christmas? I just wanted to get my guy out there before Alena did, or GL. I am sure your holiday will be better with out than with, create the fantasy, but lets deal with the reality, go over Christmas past, and make a Christmas future. Do what you want with out fear, how is that for a present ? I admit that the first Christmas with out him felt strange, butttttt... I felt free, now I have his 50 realitives to fix Menudo for, please, I will take strange over it, ok.... Reverse e-bay we pay you to take them. common find a laugh.

December 23, 2002
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i hate the holidays too aspally last year my by at the time brok up with me on CHristmas elve and i hated it and i will always rember it and i just dont get into chritmas anymore. i go to the shops and here people singing and musica and stuff like that and i hate it. the rush and everything. i odnt know i have lost the spirit and i'm only 14. i sit and i wish it never came and sometoimes i forget about it. it makes me really down. i dont know why i try and make the most of it though.

December 24, 2002
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what r u gonna do the rest of ur life every christmas? ur way too young to not like it.

December 24, 2002
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eBay! oh what a hoot! Maybe we should call it "eBoy"...

December 24, 2002
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hahaha

December 24, 2002
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just like victoria's secret----->>> for males------>>> victor secret

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