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February 1, 2005
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Please someone. I need someone to talk to. I just can't seem to pull it together. How could he just meet someone new just like that? After all that I did for him! After everything we went through. I love him so much and it hurts so bad right now. How could he not have feelings for me but have feelings for someone else? Help!

February 1, 2005
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I'm here. Calm down. You're going to be OK.

February 1, 2005
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I just can not stop crying. I love him soooo much. I feel like such a baby right now. I miss him wanting me, him holding me, I've been strong for the past three days, I'm proud of myself, but today is hard. I keep seeing his smile, and all his good qualities. I just feel worthless and alone.

February 1, 2005
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Dear K, I am going through the same thing..How long were you w/him..Me 6 yrs..It's been 3 months & I will tell you that it will get better..It seem some people are emotionally UNAVAIlable..that's why they are so deatached abouth there feelings..I know he cared but, not ENOUGH...It's ascares me that I loved soemone like that. I was an extension for him..Self gratifying people. Not givers. But, takers..I settled..I will tell you to know that there is hope & to keep positive people around you right now..Remind yourself of your worth & what you do bring to the table..It is their loss!! Focus on yourself...have faith that god doesn't give us things we can not handle....I am sorry we are going through this..But, this too shall pass..lucy

February 1, 2005
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Thanks Lucy. We were together for 5 and a half years. It hurts so bad. How can he be so happy right now while I hurt so bad? I just don't understand.

February 1, 2005
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Dear k, It's not that his so happy cuz, believe me thet are not..It's just what they know..Mine can't be alone...One must be happy themselves in order to give happiness..It will be short lived believe me..it will end..Tehy have not resolved their issues so they bring them into the new relatioship & wonder why they still aren't happy..I hurt too k, but there is a bigger picture for us out there !!!! we just can't see it right now cuz, we are clouded..stay focused on the fact that you are beautiful,strong and a caring soul..there is this one thread that is called ..LET IT GO..it helped me see things alittle more clearly when all I was doing was hurting...I am here for you..you are not alone ..lucy

February 1, 2005
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Thank you very much. Today is just a hard day. I miss him, everything about him. It hurts today. Thanks for replying. I really think he is happy though. I think it is me who has the problem.

February 1, 2005
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hi Kentucky.......trust me, he doesn't even like the new girl he is with, he is most likely using her...why would he leave you and jump for another girl....sounds like HE has the issues....please hold on tight, 2morrow is a new day, and hopefully you will feel better. And trust me he is not happy, he is just covering up his feelings....keep posting ok!! (((camer))))

February 1, 2005
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Thanks everyone, I shouldn't even care. This just shows my weakness, I know we are not good together, it's just hard to let go. This is probably my hardest day since the break up a month ago. I just can't seem to pick up my own pieces. My tears won't stop falling. I feel sick. Can people hypnotise you to make this go away? lol. I just feel like part of me is dead.

February 1, 2005
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Dear Kentucky Girl: I hear you. I am in the same boat. Been 15 days since I even heard from him and I doubt I will. Everything you wrote could be words coming from me. I feel for you. And you are not alone. Take comfort in knowing that everyone who responds to you cares about you. We all have the same pain at one time or another. I'm going through it too. Believe me, every day does get a little better. He's the ass. Don't forget - time wounds all heels! We just don't get to see it fast enough. I care about you, as does everyone else who wrote to you on here. Will check up on you tomorrow. Hang in there kiddo. Trust in yourself. A BIG FAT HUG TO YOU from me.

February 2, 2005
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awww thanks msguud. you are a sweet heart.

February 2, 2005
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Just keep telling yourself everythings going to be ok. You are going to be better off with out him. Anyone that can just leave you like that wasn't meant for you. I know you have a alot of feelings right know and you don't know which ones to trust, but don't blame yourself, there is someone out there that will love you for who you are, and wont leave you no matter what happens.

I can feel you pain. My girlfriend just broke up with me. It might not be the same because our sexes have been flipped but I too blamed myself at first, but then realized it wasn't my fault. If it was meant to be it would of happend.

My thoughts will be with you. Be strong.

Joe

February 2, 2005
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Wow i just read your other post. You paid his bills, and pretty much took care of everything in his life. And as soon as he finaly get comfortable and back on his own feet. He leaves you. Sounds like he used you. Im sorry, thats just wrong no matter which way you look at it. I hope you have a shoulder to cry on. I'm sorry i judged your pain earlier i've never been thru anything like that. I cant know for sure what kind of pain your going thru but i know it hurts ALOT. I am sorry. If you can't get that from your boyfriend, atleast you can hear it here. I am sorry.

I will pray for you. Best wishes.

Joe

February 2, 2005
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Kentucky Girl.... YOu will get through this time, and in time you'll look be able to not eve nhave to look back, you'll just be moving on, moving up, and with support, you'll regain strength!!!! Its hard to see when your stimach is all knotted up, and tears just flood outta your face, But YOU are GOING 2 GET THROUGH THIS!!! It may help to tell that to yourself, out loud even... Try saying "I WILL get through this,"
and say it over and over until you beleive it and FEEL it.
Empower yourself with POSITIVITY..
my thoughts and warm wishes are with you.

February 2, 2005
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GIRL KEEP TALKING THE HEALING BEGANS WHEN WE OPEN UP AND RELEASED THOSE DAM EMOTIONS....ONE DAY YOU WILL THANK HIM FOR HELPING YOU GROW

February 2, 2005
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Thanks everyone for your support. I'm just blind to positivity today. I have just been so depressed. Tomorrow is my birthday, I know I won't hear from him. It just kills me that he can just move on like this. I know that I am probably better off in the long run, but the long run is too far away, i don't know if i can handle this anymore. I just feel like I don't belong anywhere, my thoughts are taking control of me lately. please help, I'm sorry I'm so needy right now. I just don't know what to do.

February 2, 2005
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hello again Kentucky, and a happy birthday to you girl....maybe a new time for a new outlook,....2morrow is your birthday, make sure you have a good day, do good things for you, enjoy your day, it only comes one time in this world...you deserve the best in life and you have to believe that....keep posting, see how many responses from all these wonderful caring people (like yourself!) you are getting!!! (((camer)))

February 2, 2005
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Thanks camer, you are a kind soul.

February 2, 2005
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Happy Birthday.... Try to think of it as a RE birthday, a fresh start....
I feel like i dont fit in anywhere, anddont quite know where to begin a lot of the time. One of my freinds said to me yesterday that Its not that you DONT fit inanywhere, Its that you fit in EVERYWHERE.... I am not sure I quite "get" that, but I'll sleep on it, and take comfort in it... anyway, my dear... DOnt worry about Running the Long run... Just make sure your Shoelaces are tied up good, and do some stretching... and PLEASE , dont for get to breathe, and give yourself some of those good old "Cheezy" self affirmations...
Take a big swim in LAKE YOU!!!!
BE SAFE, andtake good care of yourself...I'll eat a cupcakein honor of your RE-bnirthday tomorrow!!!

February 2, 2005
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Come on, Kentucky! Hang in there. We are all here for you. I will have some chocolate for your birthday tomorrow. Who cares if he acknowledges it. We on this site will and we care for you. Take care of you.

Ms.P.

February 2, 2005
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Thanks everyone! I am going to try to have a good time tomorrow, although I have work and school from 8am to 830pm, but then i am sure i will be on here. lol. I hope to make and keep some friendships on here. I hate that we are all suffering from this. I want you all to know that I am here for you guys as well. I just wish that this didn't hurt so bad. I just want to call him so bad, I almost want to apologize to him b/c of my codependency, but I know he will see it as me wanting him back, although I do, I KNOW THAT I DO NOT NEED HIM BACK.

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