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He's scared to commit
January 25, 2003
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I have met this really nice guy.He likes me a lot and I like him loads.We have spent a lot fo time together.Trouble is,he's really scared to go out with me-date me offically.What can I do to help him out?Any comments from males or females would be greatly appreiciated! Than you loads.Tinker xx

January 25, 2003
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Hiya Tinker! Maybe just ask him? Maybe he is just shy, a late bloomer...

January 25, 2003
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Oh man....I was this way when I met my fiance. Just scared of a relationship. Maybe he is afraid. Before we had sex for the first time though, we agreed that there would be no other partners while we had a sexual relationship. I needed that committment. He did too. So that was cool. Both of our freedoms remained in tact. He's not a jealous type, and neither am I so we just had a great time. Only string attached was the sex thing. We agree: "no licking or doinking!". Nearly 4 years later, we both go out with friends and do things by ourselves at times, but we have developed a relationship where we want the other there. It's way cool. All in time. No pressure. Share your life with him, and keep living it. Encourage him to share his with you, and to keep living his. I love this arangement. Can it work for you? Or maybe you need something different? It's okay to need. We all do. The hard part is figuring out what it is we need! And then expressing it! For me anyway it is!

January 25, 2003
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maybe he got hurt by an ex gf? maybe he doesnt want a relationship now? or maybe he is just plain shy.

i think u should ask him what is scaring him.

January 26, 2003
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I asked him.He said he is scared of girls.I asked why, and he says he is scared to be torn apart emotionally.He also said that he is worried if he gets a girlfriend he will neglect his mates.But if he doesn't want that,cant he make it not happen?Surely yes.

Free, if I just had a sexual relationship with him, I would be the one feeling used.

Trouble is, his mates have warned me not to get invovled with him,as its happened before.I dont understand him.He says he wants me,and really likes me,but am I just being used?

January 27, 2003
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what has happened before?? i didnt get that. what his friends told u. did they mean that he has used other girls before?? i hope not.

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