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Here's what get's me going-LouWho
May 26, 2005
12:36 pm
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I'll tell you what really gets me. We have all poured so much effort into these bottomless relationships. Into people who are so unworthy of us. The time, the trouble, the care, the feeding, the loving, the worry, the desparation...ALL THIS ENERGY. And in the end, we are the ones who come up short, we are the ones who are sick, and we are the ones who will have to expend even more energy to move ourselves back up just to reach ground zero.

That really gets my anger thing going, and that's okay with me, anger is a great motivator and bring-about-changer.

I read all these posts, so many of these writers who are good people, and because of being good people, they have attracted or attached themselves to bad and unworthy people. I'm talking about those of us who have poured our lives into fruitless marriages, only to realize it was a waste, that we have cast our pearls before swine, our love is used and churned to garbage.

And once we make all the right moves to protect oursleves, to re-learn life's lessons, to move forward with our lives, our former partners will have only moved an inch out the front door before they are able to happily replace us.

And you can talk all day about how empty their lives will be, how shallow they will remain, even how God or Karma will eventually dole out their come-up'ans, BUT IT STILL REMAINS FACT -- ONCE AGAIN, HERE WE ARE, DOING THE HARD WORK.

I don't know....it just really gets me.

May 26, 2005
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I hear ya im in one of those relationships right now

May 26, 2005
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you are so rught Louwho....I agree wholeheartedly. It really pisses me off. Here we are left with all the pieces to put them back together again. I feel your anger- I am there too.

May 26, 2005
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i mean right. Nice way to screw up the spelling.

May 26, 2005
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LouWho,

What happened? (if you care to talk, that is) I'm at work now but leaving for the day. I'll check in with you tomorrow.

I hate to be the voice of "optimistic" on this thread, BUT we DO learn some really great stuff going through all the hard work.

uuugggg, I'm goiong to make myself PUKE!!!!! It still sucks though.
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May 26, 2005
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Bam Bam you are so right...we do learn, and hopefully learn NOT to go back to the same type of guys! but who am i kidding, i always like the "addicted" men....it just takes time, and maybe when our time runs out, we realize we are worth so much more!!

thanks for posting this thread Lou!
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