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Here's a new one for me... acj
February 27, 2004
9:51 am
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This new guy I'm dating is very much like me... So much, that I'm starting to see co-dependency starting on his part!!! I admired how strong he was and now he's starting to let me take the lead...Which I'm doing, ever so reluctantly.

Any suggestions on how to nip this in the bud? He's a Great guy but I've never been on this side of co-dependency before... What can I do to prevent him from going down that road? Is it possible that I'm facilitating this because of my previous co-dependency issues?

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February 27, 2004
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Hi ACJ,,,now that is a new one on me!!! I'm so used to being the follower that it is a shock to suddenly be thrust into the part of leader. I suppose it could be because of your previous codependecy issues that you're just not used to being the leader? Or maybe he's just allowing you to make some decisions, and it's different from what you're used to. You didn't elaborate on what codependency traits you're seeing in him. Want to go into more detail?

February 27, 2004
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Hey!

Yeah, he calls me everyday. He's just going along with whatever I decide. I've noticed he's changed a couple of his opinions on things to my opinions. He's written me emails at 3 in the morning when he's had nightmares... I don't know. It's kind of hard to pinpoint. It's mostly just feelings I'm having...

Shoot, maybe he's not co-dependent. Maybe he's just a good guy!

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