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HELP ON WHO TO CHOOSE..
January 24, 2005
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lilmiss717
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OK I AM 17 YRS OLD I HAVE 3 GUYS I AM NEEDING TO CHOOSE FROM. 1-THIS GUY WORKS WITH THE LAW ENFORCEMENT AND HE IS 23. HE HAS A GF. WE TALK ON THE PHONE AND SEE EACH OTHER TOO. HIS PARENTS SEEM LIKE THEY LOVE ME TO DEATH AND WHATS SO STRANGE HIM AND HIS PARENTS ACT LIKE THEY DONT REALLY LIKE HIS GF,SO THEY ARE TRYING TO HELP HIM FIND ANOTHER GIRL, I DONT KNOW, JUST GUESSING! WHEN I TURN 18 I KNOW I COULD HAVE A CHANCE WITH HIM BUT I DONT KNOW IF THAT WILL HAPPEN OR NOT. HE SAYS HE LIKES ME AND DOESNT BEAT AROUND THE BUSH ABOUT WHAT HE SAYS.
MR. GUY #2- HE IS 22, TURNS 23 IN JULY. PEOPLE SAY HE HAS A KID, BUT HE HASNT CAME TO ME ABOUT IT YET. WE DONT REALLY KNOW EACH OTHER *THAT WELL*, BUT WE SEE EACH OTHER SOME WHEN WE ARE HANGING OUT W/ OUR FRIENDS & WE HAVENT BEEN LIKIN EACH OTHER TOO AWFUL LONG. HES VERY SWEET. BUT SOME OF MY FRIENDS SAY HE ISNT MY TYPE. I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.
MR. GUY #3- HE IS 21. HE IS HAVING A BABY ON THE WAY BUT HE ISN'T WITH HIS BABY MAMA NOR DOES HE LIVE WITH HER. HE SAID HE IS GONNA TAKE CARE OF THE BABY AND LIVE HIS LIFE, BUT WONT GET BACK WITH HER. (SHE IS PYSHCO TOO).ALSO THIS GUY AND HIS PARENTS ARE VERY RICH! THEY OWN 4 OR SO RESTURANTS IN THIS STATE. HE IS HALF MEXI-WHITE. HE DOESNT LOOK SO MUCH LIKE A MEXI(AND IM NOT BEING RACIST). HE IS VERY SWEET AND ALOT OF PEOPLE KNOW HIM AND THINK HE IS SWEET.
I JUST DONT KNOW WHO TO CHOOSE FROM OR WHAT. AND ABOUT THE GUY #3 -- PEOPLE MIGHT SEE US OUT IN PUBLIC AND SOME MAY LOOK AT US FUNNY, BUT THEY DONT LOOK AT IS AS BAD AS WHITE/BLACK COUPLE. SOME WHITE PEOPLE(NOT ALL) JUST HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY ABOUT COLORS KNOWING THEY ARENT PERFECT THEIRSELF AND OTHER RACES LOOK AT THEM THE SAME WAY THEY LOOK AT THEM. I JUST WISH PEOPLE WOULDNT DO THAT, AND I DONT CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OR SAY.. I AM SO CONFUSED AND BEING CONFUSED MAKES IT HARDER FOR ME TO TELL MY STORY SO IF ANYONE WOULD LIKE TO SHARE SOME THOUGHTS I WILL BE GLAD! THANKS

January 24, 2005
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Hi Lil..just so you know...type in lil letters, its easier to read!thanks!!!
Seems like guy #1 and guy #3 are already taken,..even though guy #3 may not be with the mom of his child...she will be a part of the childs life for a long time..and it just seems so quick that he would not be with her...just my guess. they may not be happy, but they still "have" girlfriends in their lives...guy #2 would probably be your best option...since you know for sure that he doesn't have a gf, maybe a baby.....Not sure, but all these men seem to have "someone" or children in their lives....have you ever tried to meet a man who likes YOU, and wants to persue you...who isn't involved with anyone??? good luck in your choice.

January 24, 2005
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well, yeah i understand what u are saying, but guy 1 and his gf doesnt get along. guy 3 and his "baby mama" arent together, she has another guy in her life, but is having a baby by someone else..she cheated and lied and is very pyscho.. guy 2, well he is weird but sweet, but he isnt my type and i dont want to get involved or get him to think i really like him when i find out that i really dont. i've had a BIG crush on guy 1. i am SO confused i just dont know what to do. theres guys out there but its HARD to tell WHO wants you and what they REALLY want you for. i just got out of a yr relationship and i messed up with that relationship, but i wont stop loving him. just like guy 3 wont stop loving his baby mama, or have anything to do with her bc he is about to experience something. guy 2 a few of his buddies has said he has a kid, im just scared to ask and plus i think its his place to come to me and tell me. age is also a number but with guy 1 his dad is a captian with the police dept. and he is just a cop. goodness, I DONT KNOW!!

January 24, 2005
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None or all of the above. Why do you need to choose? You are 17. Don't be in a rush....All of these choices have a lot of baggage. That makes a relationship harder than one w/ less baggage. You should have a good time and commit later in life. Good luck on your choice.

January 25, 2005
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I need to look at the relationship I have with myself, before I look to others..............Do I like myself? What do I have to offer? Do I look after my own basic needs in life?

January 25, 2005
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well, i understand what you are saying, but i bet if you were a pretty/handsome person at 17 and u had people come to you wanting to date you and you wanted a relationship too then wouldnt u want to date someone? i do agree with you just b/c i am 17. i stay confused i guess! #2 i really aint into that much.. #1 i am but i am going to wait til im 18 later on this year and guy #3 well i guess hes left.. but still, i dont know. guys are jerk and talk TOO much TOO! ugh........... i guess best thing to do is live a day at a time and PRAY

January 25, 2005
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honey, even you seem confused!! i am so glad you are praying, and just take things one day at a time...things will work out, just be patient with you and keep YOU as #1!!

January 25, 2005
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Why don't you find out who you are before you decide to impose yourself on anyone else. If you gotta have one of them, wait for guy number 1.

January 25, 2005
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sorry but I would advise you not to choose any.

number 1 has a girlfriend, you mention he is straight with you, but he is not straight with his girlfriend, otherwise he should be decent enough to break it off with her and allow her to find someone that does care for her (not beat around the bush etc).

number 2, is someone you don't know that well, even though your friends say he is not your type it really is not for them to decide, if anything try and get to know him a little better, then decide.

number 3, has a baby on the way, even though he is seperated from the mother of his child, she will always be in his life, he needs time to sort out his life, because it is going to change in a big way, if you like him, wait until after the birth of his child, when he is more adjusted to his situation.

don't feel like you need to choose now, at seventeen, you have a lot of time, so just have fun and if you meet someone who is right for you, there will be no doubt, just trust your instincts.

January 25, 2005
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I agree with opal.

Amd I think they are all too old for you anyway.

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