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Help Me Please x 2!!!
April 26, 2001
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Molly
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From what you described, sounds like your wife got a "Right On Counselor" Like she said there are lots of women out there with two daughters, going what the hell ??????? And she is right on in telling her that the next dance will be identical, just a different partner, that is what people don't want to admit. It is the truth. In my eyes, you have nothing to loose and everything to gain, if you are doing what the counselor suggests. Its not like your biting at the bit for fresh here I go again, which is what it is, so hang on and hold on, faith. She was a great woman and wife for many years, she just got to go through the mid life crisis before you.

April 26, 2001
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Molly,
I think I can be patient, so long as I can see something happening. I'm trying to occupy myself with some leisure time, and not submerging myself in just my work. I find solace in knowing in my mind, that this crisis my wife is going through, is not just about us, but about her reaching mid life, and wondering what life has to offer. Our relationship is just one aspect of her crisis, not the sole cause. I'm here for her, and will continue to be here for her, being as patient as possible, until such time there is absolutely no hope whatsoever. Then, she will have to make the move to go. I'm still here.

April 27, 2001
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You sound like a true gem.

April 28, 2001
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Molly,
Thank you for the kind words.
Would it help to start a new thread under the heading "help me please x3" so you don't have to go throught the whole episode to get to this point?

April 28, 2001
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I think that's a good idea Ranmar! 🙂
It takes so long to download.

But, anyway, I just keep wondering how long I would be patient.

So I don't have to re-read everything, have either of you been married before? Maybe you said it somewhere, I can't remember, I am just curious.

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