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October 13, 2003
7:41 am
Jess for TLC
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hey everyone my Aunty and Uncle have split up cause my aunty cant handle it its been happing for years now but its finally happend the thing is i'm really really close with my cousin she it like my sister and my best friend. i would die if she dies or anything happend to her. the thing its been gettting worse and worse over the last couple of months and my cousin blames my aunty and didnt see that it was comming and its really him fault what happend. she is 18 so she understands but she is taking her dads side of it all and i feel sorry for my aunty but i love my cousin to death. today it has gotten to the point i loosted it my uncle and my other cousin who is 21 and my clostest cousin 18 said to my aunty they dont want to see her agian and to get out of their live forever and it hurt my aunty really really bad she was crying and upset she wanted to kiss her self and the thing is my cousin who i'm close to is very stuborn liike me and she belove her dads lide of it all and blaming it all on my aunty which is totally wrong. my nan and my mum and dad said to me she is not welcome in this house cause what she has down to her mum and i cant call her on the home phone if i want to call her i have to talk to her on my mobile which cost alot. and also she was street racing with her bf's car and she has to go to court on wednesday and she will losse her licence dont know yet but it was 100 over the limit. my mum doesnt want me to go in the car with her and she doesnt want me to go over the house or anything. and that just killed me it was like somone stabed me and left me to die she is everything to me and my parents are taking that away for me i odnt like waht she has done to her mum but im her cousin she would do anything for me and i would to. i'm so upset and i dont know waht to do i cant see her i dont know please help this is really upseting me really bad HELP ME I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HER SHE IS EVERYTHING TO ME!!!!

October 13, 2003
10:46 am
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It sounds like you may be the only who can talk some sense into her. It takes two to make a realtionsip work. She is only listening to one side instead both. It also sounds like her father is using her as a tool, which I believe is wong. She needs to stay nutral in this situation and keep a reationship with both of them. She is the one who will be missing out if she takes sides. It is not her place to decide who is right and wrong, it is for them work out.

I have to agree with your mum, I would not want you in the car with either, she is not thinking clearly and It only takes on little slip and you could be hurt or worse. Your cousin needs listen to what you have you say. You can find a way to have a little contact with her (via phone), If she truely loves you as much as you say, she will listen, she may not like what you have to say, but she should respect it and realize that you tell her these things because you truely care.

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