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Help me get through the day
June 28, 2007
12:37 pm
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Antagonist
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I need to have a full inventory of the warehouse done by 8am sharp tomorrow morning and I have not done anything. I can't even motivate myself to get a move on and have this done before I leave work today. I have approximately 7 hours but I'm sure I will need to stick around overtime to finish this, and knowing this I cannot stop myself and my mind from wondering and focusing.

Last night I went to see how one of my close friends is doing. He always told me that I need to stop talking to my ex-girlfriend because she is doing nothing but giving me grief. He went on setting himself as an example on how he cut off his ex girlfriend and never went back blah blah blah. So last night he tells me that after almost 2 years he has started hanging out with his ex-girlfriend and fooling around with her. So the same guy who would example himself for me telling me how he cut off his ex-girlfriend and never talked to her is now seeing the same girl while I somewhat took his advice completely and cut my ex-girlfriend out of my life and I have no way to go back. I am indecisive, sometimes I think I did the right thing by cutting the ex off and yet some days (like for the past whole week) I keep thinking that I made a mistake and I wish there was someway I could still talk to her.

The fact that I saw my ex-girlfriend last week with a brand new $35,000 car and a new boyfriend did not help either.

I feel like I'm completely alone in this world, and I am sick and tired of people changing their word on me. It feels like no one wants to be honest and truth with me. No one has told me "hey you did the right thing". People keep giving me indecisive answers like "do what you want". Someone needs to just outright tell me "dude she drove you nuts you did the exact right thing".

Someone please talk some sense into me, if I don't have this inventory done by tonight I am for sure going to get fired. My boss would not tolerate my mishap.

June 28, 2007
12:40 pm
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Dude: Stop writing and get the inventory done. Just do the next right thing.
Second - you friend did not make you break up with your girlfriend. You listened to his advice and so what he's back hanging around with her. You have no control over that. And really so big deal - what is a $35,000 car it's just "stuff". She drove you nuts - you did the exact right thing. Your Higher Power has your greatest good in mind. Why don't you talk to your Higher Power today and turn it over to him/her and watch the miracle happen.

June 28, 2007
12:41 pm
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Come on get the inventory done. I know it hurts but, she just wasn't ment for you. Are you going to let her ruin your life and lose your job? She dosen't have that kind of power does she? Stop feeling sorry for yourself and go get um! You can do it!

June 29, 2007
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this is the same guy who will be kicking himself for getting back together with her...tho he won't admit it until he needs to mention it as a "lesson" for someone else.

trust me, the ex is an ex for a reason.

you DID the right thing...KNOW you did...TRUST you did. You weren't happy, it wasn't working...it wasn't going to change.

and no amount of "new bling" is going to make your ex a better, good, new person...she is who she is...and can play around with fancy toys...but still won't change who she is on the inside.

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