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heart building
January 26, 2005
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marley
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so I had this random thought yesterday about how our hearts break and would that make them weaker or stronger. First I thought the heart must be weaker and unable to love as much after it breaks because it can never really be made whole the same as before. But now I think that the heart is a muscle, and like any other muscle in the human body you build it up by making tiny little tears in the muscle tissue and letting it heal and then making more tiny tears, just like body building.

January 26, 2005
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Wow,

What an amazingly perfect analogy!!!

I agree whole (torn) heartedly. I think that had I not gone thru my marriage and sufffered the pain that I did, I would never know exactly what I want/need from a relationship and would not be in the healthy relationship I am now.

I also think that had I not been in a very controlling and emotionally abusive relationship, I might take the goodness of my partner now for granted.

I think that each time the heart breaks it's a lesson and it builds up strong and stronger. The strength is also in the protective wall around my heart which is now not so easily conquered.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

t

January 26, 2005
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thanks for your story - it helps to think that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

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