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Heart and Emotion
March 6, 2000
11:50 am
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Leaf
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What is the difference between your heart (feelings) and your emotion (feelings)?

How can you tell when you are being led by what your heart tells you from when you are being led by what your emotions tell you?

My point being emotions seem to take you on a wild goose chase, make you do all sorts of things, many of which are negative. Whereas I am assuming that by listening to the heart, can lead to truth and more positive things in life?

Any ideas ou there

March 6, 2000
5:34 pm
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Leaf,

If you have read the other threads, I think you will find most of us are to some degree dysfunctional, expecially in imtimate relationships. Your relationships with woman (assuming Leaf is a man) have probably all ended the same, as you eluded to in your post, "My point being emotions seem to take you on a wild goose chase, make you do all sorts of things, many of which are negative."

So, in answer to your question, you can't follow either. Now, what do I mean by that. You see Leaf, the way the world REALLY works is 180 degrees opposite of what we have been taught. After all, you haven't been successful yet, as well as the rest of us. It is wrong. Your gut feelings, "emotions", etc. lie to you as they always have. When you meet a speacial person, and you get the butterflies, or whatever you call that feeling in the pit of your stomach, you think its magic, love, something special. This feeling soon fades, the real person rears their ugly head, and your back to square one once again. It called your pattern. Again, read ALL the threads here and you will LEARN what I mean.

Anyway, you have to change, bottom line. Not the "Ok, from now on I will do....., and this, and that!" By george, no more crap for me!" That is what I call a paper change. We all do it. Its the same type of thing we do when we do our new years resolutions.

In order to REALLY change your life, you have to figure out whats inside of you that causes YOU to act the way you do. This is your particular dysfunction! Not meaning your fucked up, or bad, but that your not quite on the path you need to be on. Find a therapist (pychologist). They are the ONLY ones that can help you.

Sure, I know friends and family can point things out. HEll, you probably even know things you could change. Thats the easy part. YOU NEED TO FIND EXACTLY WHAT CAUSES THOSE BEHAVIORS. THAT IS INSIDE OF YOU.

OTHERWISE MY FRIEND, YOU LIFE WILL NEVER CHANGE.

B-

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