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Healthy Healing to Soprano
March 5, 2007
3:59 pm
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Went back to work today, and boy I am exhausted. I guess that I took on too much too soon--like everyone said that I would.

Hope all is well with you guys. I feel like everything is falling apart with my husband coming back. And I don't feel very strong because of everything.

Hoping that I can lean on you guys and puke out all of my stuff. I can't right now, I am going to see my counselor. I know that it will help, but I miss all of you guys.

Hopefully the online will work at school tomorrow so that I can write during school.

Until then...

s2

March 5, 2007
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Sorry to hear that you are so exhausted but isn't that to be expected. Be Gentle with yourself while you are recovering from this procedure. So your husband is still at home. We're here for you to listen to you!

March 5, 2007
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Man...isn't it about time to find an apartment and serve that man papers.

Soprano...my friend told me how that worked for her.

I guess you have to have money for a divorce though. I am hoping mediation will work out for that reason.

She is almost done with her divorce and now they are going to figure out what to do with the house.

But you don't need any of that right now...or him around either.

Sending him some go back to Florida vibes.

March 6, 2007
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(((hugs and healing to Soprano)))

March 7, 2007
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Thanks guys. School just got cancelled for today. I went to a friend's house to do some computer work, and I left before they cancelled school. My girl is sick, and he actually stayed home with her this morning so that I could get some stuf done. I almost fell over.

Anyway, yes, it is time for me to leave. I have decided that I am the one that needs to leave. If he leaves, I think that there will always be a part of me that feels like the victim. And I want to use this situation as a spring board to know that I can do things for myself. That I can make change.

I have absolutely no money for a divorce or to move out. In fact, I am about to be sued by a credit card company unless I get caught up by Friday.

Such is life sometimes.

Will try and write more later.

Hope all is well.

s2

March 7, 2007
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excellent that school got cancelled. I am sure you need the rest.

my spring break starts on Friday!!!!!

I have to sign my intent to return next year form tomorrow. I am not sure if I want to sign it. Do I have the courage to look for another job???

March 7, 2007
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Trust your instincts. You can always look. It doesn't hurt at all.

I will send some good vibes your way. If you need someone to talk it out, I am always here for you.

s2

March 7, 2007
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(((((s2))))))My thoughts are with you....love, gg

March 7, 2007
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Soprano,

Sorry to hear about you issues with you credit card company. Man, I was going to say just put your divorce on your credit card. 🙁

I went off about the whole thing in my thread.

Man...shoot. I went throught the women's center and they gave me three lawyers that would give me a few half hour consult.

If he isn't working...hmmm, your debt will just increase. Oof.

If he created all this debt you may have to just declare bankrupcy...wihich could stink, since you credit would be screwed...but it sounds like it is in crappy shape now if you are going to be sued by the cc company.

My friend did that with her lazy cheating husband who had $34, 000 of credit card debt.

Maybe you could check with the county.

Don't you have a sister who knows the ins and outs of divorce?

Hmmm...Just worry about the WHAT and WHY and the How will come to you. There is some Law of Attraction for you. 🙂

Let it all out and maybe a beautiful solution will come.

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