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September 5, 2001
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pg lova
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This isn't really a problem, but I would appreciate some input from you all. There is this girl I met at my job and we've been going out for a while as friends. I had a cookout labor day and she even came over and she stayed all day. There are even times she drops by my house unannounced, just because she wants to see me 🙂 I really want this girl for more than just a friend, but I can't be sure if she feels the same way, so I need some suggestions on things I can do to show her how much I want her. She's like a match sent from heaven!!!!! All of my life, I've waited for someone like her and I don't plan to let her go until she's mine!

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PG Lova

September 5, 2001
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How about honesty. First ask her out on a date. Take her to dinner than the movies then walk her to her door and try giving her a kiss. Just a short an sweet one something for her to have her mind on until the next time. You both well be anticipating the next time. Oh I think this can be romanic. Let us know how it goes.

September 11, 2001
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That's easy man tell her how you feel. The worst she can do is say no. And even if she does what have you lost? Nothing, she's still a good friend of yours. Right?

September 12, 2001
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she'll love your courage for being up front with your feelings... give her a little peek at your heart, then she'll be really curious for more.

September 14, 2001
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Thanks,

I'm going to let her know how I feel today. I'm nervous, because it's been a while since I've ever felt like this for anyone (couple years to be exact). I was in a long term relationship that went bad and I swore I'd never fall in love again. Now, here she is standing here. Like Deborah Cox's song says, I wanna know "How did she get here?" But, I'm happy now that she is. I'll keep you all posted as to what happens after tonight. But in the mean time, could you all give me some helpful hints on how to make tonigt special for the both of us? Also, she stayed over last night and as she was there, I can see myself waking up to her every morning. Simply, I'm falling so deep in love. I hope I'm not moving to fast. Well, I'm about to go because I gotta finish this poem I'm writing for her. Wish me luck.

PG Lova

September 14, 2001
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Sounds like your doing a good job all on your own.

September 16, 2001
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Well,we have started seeing each other. It's very informal now, but by the way things are going, I can tell that she wants to be there with me, the same way I want her. I'm still moving slowly though. I was engaged and this woman left me and broke my heart. I still vividly remember the devastation. But, now this feels like my "second time around." Like I've found someone who I will eventually want to marry. Oh, she stayed over again the other night. But, right now she's not staying over every night. I mean I really care and wanna make this work, but at the same time I need some space too. Even married couples need space right? But I can say that we have made our start.

September 16, 2001
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pg lova,

S L O W down. For your ownsake. It seems rather fast. I know you have feelings for this girl but take it slow. Don't start talking marriage at this point. Learn about her, and I mean learn. You don't want to scare her do you. Take one day at a time. Really
Cerry

September 19, 2001
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Cerry,

How right you are! I've just had her stay for a couple of weeks and she's making me lose my marbles. She is definitely not someone I want to marry (or even a relationship with for that matter.) It's just a matter of time before I put her out because I am on the verge of doing so. Like the song says "I think she better leave me alone."

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