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He sent a birthday card
November 5, 2007
11:46 am
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It was pretty, addressed:

Dearest Doris,

Love, signed with his name.

I am not responding.

Just finished an HIV, HEP blood workup and all vaginal cultures for STDs.

That is enough for me...no contact.

November 5, 2007
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well Happy Birthday Doris!!!

good for the no contact, sometimes it seems like a card or flowers or what not will get "us" to respond, stay strong!!!

November 5, 2007
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I wonder what his MO is...However, I know this guy...he is hoping this opens the window to communication.

Not over my dead body.

November 5, 2007
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((Doris))
Stay strong, you know a birthday card means nothing except maybe "I am up to something"
You seem to have such a good head on your shoulders and you are an inspiration to me.

November 5, 2007
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Honey..after sobbing at the Doctor's office when he wrote down on my chart "STD panel..unprotected sex" I almost vomited.

This was a 3 year relationship that I thought was filled with love and hope. That scumbag has jeopardized my health..and I am so angry.

My doctor said I look "good" but he is running the cultures. He said not to angst over HIV..he hasn't seen a positive in all the years he has been practicing.

Now, he may be lying..but I needed reassurance. I cried so hard I almost vomited. My first husband gave me genital herpes and HPV (wart virus), and that scumbag knew my history, and still put me in jeopardy. He did do an STD panel prior to us being intimate..but who knows how valid the testing is now.

You think I would contact this snake again? Over my dead body honey!

November 6, 2007
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Happy Birthday
your so sweet & stronge & full of life!Love your post you go girl be strong! Stay away from his cyber crap .......Love yourself!
Thanks for being my cyber pal!

A card with no emotional triggers
from WASABI.......
for real happy birthday /mine is Friday & I bet my husband will do nothing....no card , present, he will forget or take me to dinner...
boring !
Birthday suck & we get older!
OOOOOH ! but cake yum!

November 6, 2007
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Yes my fellow Scorpio....it is my birthday.

I am feeling mentally stronger. The card served a purpose (and it was an actual card that was in the mail, not an E-card!): It validated that the past three years wasn't a pure fantasy, and that on some level he acknowledged I was more than a good screw.

Now, back to reality. He lied, he cheated, I am done.

So my birthday present to me? MY SANITY!

Love and light to all today....

November 6, 2007
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Wow ............
It's Nov. & yep Scorpio !
I allwas take this time to reflect !
OK what did I do this year , how has it affected my life pro's con's!
What did I learn what next....
How can I do better this next birth year!
I've never had an affair.......
But this summer I have grown emotionaly attached to someone....
I have been tring to ignore his antics for about 2 years.....
with every thing going on & my husband emotionaly unavailible .....this man has wore me down......I can't stop think about him!
He was deported in Oct. but I have not seen him sice late Aug.
He will back in a few weeks ,I want to keep my distance yet desire him so badly! I'm in deep trouble!
I'm not sure if he will try & take any further then he has with just flirty..........
Wasabi
Happy Day go do something speccial for yourselk I am on FRiday!
W

November 6, 2007
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Throw the card away. It is just another "point of contact" with him. Never mind his motive. If you keep it and/or dwell on it, he will have succeeded in focusing your thoughts around him...AGAIN.

Burn the darn thing, if you have to.

- Ma

November 6, 2007
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I am always congnizant of the fact that he KNOWS what he is doing..a psychologist.

Burn baby burn!

November 6, 2007
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Have you seen the movie "Running with Scissors" ? It's about Psychologist! That's so looney !
There nuts he made the who family & his pateince nuts & or addicted to something or another! Bizzare!
I spent the day with my mental ill son after a week in a pshic unit!
At discharge today the doctor just stood there dume founded! Finaly he spoke OOOOOH R U his mother!
What an aragent pomas ASS!
My son is half hawiian & I'm very fair anglo light hair blue eyed!
My son looks very asian! We are 19 years apart but as he ages & I look younger......people are shocked I'm his mother! I get this all the time!
But it was so werid..........He just stared at me freaky........
What a day!

My birthday is Friday! I hope it's a nice quite day that's all I ask! I can't remeber when my husband gave me a card???????
I just want to FORGET about it ya know! dame 44 ..........
I wish I could go out with my fantasy guy>>>>>>>> who is about to sneak back into the country after being deported.......... God I miss him! Sucks to be obssesed with an illegel man.........an married to another......yet having to see this one daily for 2 years has been torcher!

Doris I hope your check up went well!
Sorry to go off the deepend here I'm just so out there today.......
Wasabi

November 7, 2007
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Hi Wasabi.

Yes, this psychologist really messed with my head. I haven't heard from him except for the birthday card.

I am keeping very busy with school, work, etc. I never saw the movie

"Running with scissors" but my therapist tells me that most Scumbags hide behind their titles i.e. Psychologists, doctors, etc. My ex is 57 and you would think he would stop acting like a 17 year old chasing every skirt he sees.

He disgusts me.

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