Avatar
Please consider registering
guest
sp_LogInOut Log In sp_Registration Register
Register | Lost password?
Advanced Search
Forum Scope


Match



Forum Options



Minimum search word length is 3 characters - maximum search word length is 84 characters
sp_TopicIcon
he left, should be glad, codependent and bipolar
February 21, 2006
1:56 pm
Avatar
sunshinetrisha
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 27, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

hi, first time here, i am really beside myself. i have been living with a married man for 4 years (on and off) he is an acoholic, he has cheated on me a lot, he doesn't give me any attention and i try so hard to deal with it all cause of the way he can love me once in a while. well he got mad cause i tore up his valentine i got him, and moved out of my apt. and went to my trailer i just bought. his wife knows how much he got back on his income tax cause she does it for him but i can't know. so. my question is WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME. I don't feel like a have low self esteam. I work hard, pay MY BILLS. (he never helps me financially). I have great friends and family. Yes I drink too but only once and a while, i had one day off this week and i got drunk, came home, played sad songs and cried for 2 hours. i should be glad he is gone. although we have done this so many times before. its just a repeat. i need help. i don't want to work, or see anyone or talk on the phone. i tried yesterday to get out and do something and i just couldn't. help please

February 21, 2006
6:41 pm
Avatar
revelation
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 27, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

My guess is that what is wrong is that you have become so entwined with this man and HIS issues, that you have become dependent on HIS issues to keep you going. For you, this is normality...when he is gone, you feel like a limb is missing, because you have learned to feed off the drama of your relationship. As for a solution to this. Well, I can't preach because I'm still trying to get over my ex, but no contact, and taking care of you seems to help. But its a gradual process. There are lots of great books you can read to help you along to if you are interested.

February 21, 2006
6:55 pm
Avatar
gingerleigh
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

You've been living with a married man who isn't married to you. Why are you settling for half (or less) of a man? Don't you feel like you deserve a whole one?

Forum Timezone: UTC -8
Most Users Ever Online: 349
Currently Online:
27
Guest(s)
Currently Browsing this Page:
1 Guest(s)
Top Posters:
onedaythiswillpass: 1134
zarathustra: 562
StronginHim77: 453
free: 433
2013ways: 431
curious64: 408
Member Stats:
Guest Posters: 49
Members: 110977
Moderators: 5
Admins: 3
Forum Stats:
Groups: 8
Forums: 74
Topics: 38561
Posts: 714261
Newest Members:
swright, nina1985, February, lisabaker, robertwalker, Why..
Moderators: arochaIB: 1, devadmin: 9, Tincho: 0, Donn Gruta: 0, Germain Palacios: 0
Administrators: admin: 21, ShiningLight: 572, emily430: 29

Copyright © 2020 MH Sub I, LLC. All rights reserved.
Terms of Use | Privacy Policy | Cookie Policy | Health Disclaimer | Do Not Sell My Personal Information