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he isn't divorced yet!!! i didn't even know he was married!!!!
January 3, 2005
4:20 pm
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november
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hey everyone,i have been talking with you guys regarding this friend i have known for 10 yrs and i even posted some of our emails. well, we got into it the day before new years eve. i asked him to go with me on new years to this party and he said he had plans, no date but plans. well i was disppointed and then i got to thinking about all the other women that call him and i was thinking yeah right, he is probably seeing all these other women and he was just using me for whatever. well, i sent him an email and told him i didn't want to talk to him anymore basically. he called the next day and said he would grant my wishes and proceeded to tell me that yes ten years ago i would have been dead on as far as him running the town but today no i was dead wrong, that he hasn't been out with one woman aside from me and that he trusted me and that i have always had a piece of his heart etc. whats a piece?? what does that mean exactly??? but since then he will not talk to me i am assuming becuz i said not too, but after our conversation i told him if he would have told me that then all this could have been avoided. well nothing, and now guess what. i talk to a friend last night and she said that his name was in the paper and he was getting a divorce. so he is still married. well one now i understand why he was acting so weird and plus the health issues he is havning so at first i was sympathetic and even emailed him and told him i had no idea he was going through a divorce and that i was sorry. duh.. later i am thinking, wait a minute. he didn't tell me he was still married, what if i would have had sex with him. i would have been playing the role of the other woman without even knowing it. now i don't know what i feel. why in the world didn't he tell me that he was going through a divorce??? i can say none of this would have happened. how would you guys respond to this. i mean would you be sympathetic and say sorry to put so much on you during this time or WHAT.. you are married. well you jerk.. i am confused. and top it off he is mad at ME

January 3, 2005
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November,
I'll tell ya....men can be just DOGS!!!!! I have learned of a few warning signs and they are: you only get a cell number and are never invited to where he lives #1. (most times - don't even KNOW where he lives.) #2 - he acts as if he is juggling lots of stuff in his life and can never make definite plans with you - like a single guy would. #3 - the gut feeling you get that "something just ain't right here....." he is a deceiver and somewhat of a scam artist! So sorry that you are hurting November.....your energies and affections would be better met with someone else......someone SINGLE and on the level! brenda

January 3, 2005
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hey brenda, i have been to his house. he just told me that he had gotten out of a relationship and he came off like it wasn't that big of a deal and that they were never married, well at the time he said that he was indeed married. i don't get why he felt he had to lie to me. i mean we were friends. i thought. i do not understand on bit of this crap. time to just freakin let go of the whole mess. he obviously is not who i thought he was. it so hurts when they just totally wipe you off the earth, like you never existed and won't talk to you and my gosh it wasn't a major deal what i did, what is his problem. i just got mad about new years eve and accused him of sleeping around, when he told me different i said i was sorry. so he needs to let it go. i just don't get it. to me he is being a major self centered ass.

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