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He is leaving
July 12, 2007
5:27 pm
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mean girl
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He is leaving tonight and I don't know if I want to be there when he does. I don't want to cry in front of him and I dont want him to see me cry. I also don't want to beg him to stay. If I m there when he leaves, I'll feel guilty and I ll run after him

July 12, 2007
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I'm sorry, I guess I do not know the entire situation behind this. Is this a boyfriend and are you just breaking up? Or, is this more than that? Can you tell me a thread or something where I can see more about the background of this situation please?

July 12, 2007
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We have been together for 5yrs and have a 2yr old together but we haven't been getting along well and I have trust issues with him, so we fought all the time. I told him to leave in april and he came back saying that he would change, so I gave him another chance and we have done nothing but fight, so now he is leaving again tonight. We really got into it the other night because I asked him about putting the money back into our childs savings, since I pulled it out and put it into his account so he could pay his bills. Well he has not put it back and is pushing it off more and more. I got upset and was walking towards the bathroom and right before I shut the door, he called me a C--t. For the 2nd time. And I told him that things are not going to change and that he needed to leave. He started takeing everything and yelling at me and he even took a chainsaw to the house. When he was standing in the doorway yelling and coming back inside, I put my hands on him and told him to just leave and he pushed me off and told me he would lay me out. He apologized after that, but I told him that he needed to leave that I couldn't do this anymore. So tonight he's leaving.

July 12, 2007
10:32 pm
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Good for you!! You deserve better than that. IF you watch him leave you will know in your heart that his is gone. You can protect your belongings. If you don't want to be there you can protect your emotions.
You will find many strong women here who have set you a good example of getting rid of men who are not worthy of you.

July 13, 2007
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could you have someone come over and keep you company while it happens?

that way he is less likely to cause a scene?

if not

then take what you absolutely MUST keep, any valuables you are afraid he'll take, OUT of the home, and then let him take his stuff.

he may take stuff of yours...but in the end, think of it as a small price to pay to get him out...just make sure you have all the important stuff in your possession.

July 13, 2007
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Thank God he is leaving!! Secure your valuables. If you cannot face him alone, request assistance from your local police department. They will send over an officer, as a security precaution to prevent any domestic violence. This is a service which they routinely perform for their community. Just tell them you have reason to believe he might become violent with you again.

If you choose NOT to be present, then make sure you take ALL of your valuables out of the house, BEFORE he comes. Otherwise, he may take them. So, secure whatever is most precious to you.

- Ma Strong

July 13, 2007
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And be sure to change the locks after he is gone.

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