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He cried to me........
October 7, 2005
9:36 pm
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sygg
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Yes I talked with my husband today, he cried as he told me how much he loved me and he held me so hard i couldn't breathe. He said that he was still in love with me it was just the pressure of all our financial problems last year or so. He said that even when he is away from me he is holding me and thinking about me.......why am i so mean to him...so resentful for the way my life is...maybe i don't see the good in anything anymore....i've become so negative inside. He said that he hurts inside knowing that i am so unhappy in my life, he wants me happy with him........now what? hmmmm

October 7, 2005
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That was pretty powerful.
I don't know your situation. Sorry.
If body language speaks to us the hug sounded wonderful and genuine.
I hope you find that which makes you truly happy. Money is certainly emotional. But it doesn't buy true love. Goodluck sorting through the mixed up feelings you are experiencing.
HD

October 7, 2005
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It was a real good hug, yes 😉 Just wish it was some foreplay to hot sex tonight lol but he has to go to work at 4 am and is snoring right now.

October 8, 2005
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gosh, I have heard that so many times...the crying the poor me from my stbx, but I have decided that nothing changes if nothing changes...
and unless I see some sort of REAL change, all the crying in the world does not matter!

October 8, 2005
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hi nv2late. Yeah I know what ya mean on that one. I guess I was happy that this matters to him. That it does affect him and that he is willing to try to meet me in the middle in some way. I'm like you though now at 36 yrs old, i look for the REAL change to take place, but it's not only him that has to change here, it's me too. You take care, hope everything works out for the best with you. Nice to meet you.

October 8, 2005
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Hi Sygg,

I agree with nvr2late. Although it is great that he is willing to put his feelings out there, he really needs to put action where his tears are.

I have had many a b/f cry, beg, plead, and make promise after promise, only to go back to their old ways as soon as it feels safe to them. My current b/f does this everytime we "break up". He acknowledges that he has a problem and promises to go to therapy. I always take him back based on "promises" and the results are always the same. Nothing changes and within a few weeks it's the same old "I don't need help, there's nothing wrong with me....you're the one that needs therapy". And so it goes until the next time. That is not a mistake I will make again.

Right now could be an opportunity to effect some changes. Put some boundries in place and require him to put some action to his words.

Good luck,
Lolli

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