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He called again
July 12, 2003
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it seems that every month my husband calls me when him and my best friend get into a fight or he is really drunk, i guess he feels like i am not angry at him any more and when he feels low he calls for some support well you know that is wrong he called me like 4 times that night when i am trying to sleep but this time he left his ph one number which usually he doesn't allow me to see hin phone number at all but i guess he didn't care this time, so thursday was his birthday so i called his number and wished him a happy birthday and that was all i said and he hung up, at leawt he knows that i know his number now, well he called his mom and told her that i called and she also called and wished him a happy birthday he doesn't even want his mother to know where he is that is so sad to calls us only when he is feeling low and down and out. just like like his mom told him today, if you aren't going back to her don't call her giving her hope. i wouldn't take him back any way not after he has been her. but it still hurts when i hear his voice, but i have come along way since last october, almost a year ago, and he is on unemployment and they are struggling. I am sorry i am venting here, but i have had to pick myself up and go on with my life, is it wrong to not want any contact with him?

July 12, 2003
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Wrong to not want contact? You are wise! SO MANY people advised that I do just that when first separating. Give him a time in the future when you will call him. Maybe something like " I will call you next year on your birthday. I realy look forward to hearing about all you have accomplished and sharing my accomplishments with you. Right now, it's just too hard. So....one year it is! Goodbye."

Yeah?

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July 13, 2003
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thanks free good idea, but now that i have his number i don't think he will make that mistake again, he told his mom that he was thinking about changing his phone number oh well.

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