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Having Fun and Coping with CODEP!- from Rilin
August 16, 2007
8:12 pm
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HELLO... it's me Ri! Hope everyone is doing well... Some of you have read my threads and some have not... so I will put out there first that i am a spiritual person... I never will criticize anyone who confronts me about their faith or choice of faith..and I will never demand that you have to accept jesus to get better... those things and acts have to be done on your own free will, that is part of my codep.... any way.... I started this thread to define what I have said about having fun and recovering from CODEP... Instead of fixing people who do not and will not fixed(at least by us) Try fixing something like model cars or planes, wood working or misc items... If you are not mechanically inclined( like me) painting, gardening, writing sewing knitting, any thing creative...something that will take our minds away from trying to fix and heal everyone else and in return challenge out intelect. These are just some healthy suggestions its really up to your interest.

I hope that this will be helpful.. Talk 2 u guys l8er .... Ri

August 16, 2007
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Rilin, Thank you for the great tips. Which ones of these are you doing?

August 17, 2007
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Rilin,....I'm a very spiritual person also. I have accepted Jesus as my Savior. I hope to get the chance to have many "conversations" with you and share. I love to read your and Fantas posts. You both inspire me. 🙂
I had a get together today with my daughter and grandchildren,....and it went so much better than normal. I believe it is from reading and writing on this site. I just felt so much more at peace and things just seem to fall into place better. I look forword to hearing what you have to say.

August 17, 2007
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Fantas....

I have four small children so I get to color,paint and play tag.. I get involved in church where I am in group facilitator training for the recovery group I go to. But I just really recently, with the help of this sight, found out what codep was.
I read books and work my twelve steps, bout all I have time for, My babies are 4yrs old and under,(4,4,2,13 mos) I watch my youngest daughter take steps, she is almost walking on her own. my two oldest, no not twins,blended family,are starting pre-k this year and b/c we are low income, my two youngest,go to daycare,for about 1/2 the price so I may attend school. I feel very liberated from this compulsive behavior, now that I know what it is and where it stems from.... Ri

August 17, 2007
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Rilin,
May god bless you in health and in strength.
I am also a spiritual person and I am a witness that through God ,prayers and faith. He will make everything alright.
Me myself have came a long way. I found this site several years ago, when I was at my lowest, but I hear to tell you that god has brought me a long way, and when I felt that I was in darkness, he brought me into the light.
The devil is also a powerful being, he will get you when he knows that you are at your weakness but if you have the faith and the power to pull yourself out into the good person that god intended you to be, then I am a witness to say that everything will be alright.
Keep having fun in life because we only have one life to live. Enjoy your family, enjoy each day that we are bless to see.
I know that some people are looking for the magic answers, but if they only would let go and let god, maybe there life would take a difference turn. I have gave up in trying to fix others. I just pray for them. Since I have been fixing myself. I see a total new person and I know that I am shining. I can see the light.(smile)

My name is nappy, and I just wanted to welcome you to this site. Hopefully we will continue to talk and to help each other in our trying time in this world.

Nappy

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