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Hard task of the day
February 23, 2005
10:08 am
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My husband and i separated one month ago today...he has to decide if he wants to be with me, wife and most importantly friend of 25 years or the op.

His therapist suggested he stay away from both of us for at least one month....

Now he is in the Dominican for 2 weeks...

Today, i have to go to his office and pick up some cheques for mortgage payment and expenses, the op is in this building....

He called his partner this morning and asked him to call me and ask me to bring our air mattress and sleeping bag, i guess so he doesn't have to come home when he gets back, to pick them up.

Crap this hurts so much...the longer i don't hear from him, or see him the harder it seems to get...

I wonder how i'll get through today......
I can't wait till tomorrow, i leave on vacation, my body will but i hope my head will also be on vacation.

February 23, 2005
3:13 pm
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know that today may be difficult, but it is being done for all the right reasons...who knows what will happen with the one month separation....things could maybe patch up after being away. Keep a positive outlook and know that you may feel upset now, but that is ok, and I wish you peace & comfort in the coming days.

You are not alone 🙂

February 23, 2005
4:14 pm
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I know these things are so trying on the nerves , tummy, heart and head, bBut you will get through this, and TRY wit hall yer' might to be optimistic, and no matter what theday WILL eventually end, so will the week, etc, "One day at a time>"
take it easy on yourself, and know you are NOT alone.
((((((((( Much love, support, and prayer for ya'))))))))))))

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