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Happy f**king birthday.
May 3, 2001
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chris-tina
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Today is my birthday, and I just want to die. My supposed best friend doesn't give a shit about me, and I hate my life. I wish I could erase this day from the calander; it gets worse every year. Sorry. Thanks for letting me vent.

May 3, 2001
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Hi, Happy Birthday šŸ™‚

Dun be sad just because your supposed best friend doesn't care about you. In this world you have to love yourself first. Take care šŸ™‚

Hope after this "venting" you will feel better.

May 3, 2001
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((((((((((((chris-tina)))))))))))))
Sounds like you need a great big hug for your birthday. I know how you feel I get all butt hurt for stuff like that all the time. However a good friend explaind the othe day to me , most of the times other peoples actions that hurt our feelings did't really have anything to do with us. So we brain f**k ourselves for no f**king reason. Yes you have the right to be hurt but belive me it will pass.
P.S I give a shit about your birthday. HAPPY BIRTHDAY

May 3, 2001
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So do I....I'm getting old and I don't care about the presents and all that stuff. My birthday is a day I give to ME...a road trip, a day at a bookstore..something for ME!!!!

You need to be first to you...yes I still think we all need to have compassion for others and help where we can..but when it comes to being hurt by others and worrying who likes us and who doesn't...we have to liein our own skins and love us best..then others can too.

Happy birthday...today is the day God gave you to the world and he has never made anything junky.

h>B.

May 3, 2001
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When I was in the nut house there was a girl there who had a congenital failure of some important organ. The doctors said she wouldn't make it as far as she did, and when I knew her she was pretty set on offing herself. But she had the best line on birthdays. She said that she always told her mom, "thanks a lot for killing me the day I was born." Well... as a teenager rebelling against my parents, I thought it was pretty funny at the time.

May 3, 2001
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Expectations are what kill us. everytime. Maturity or at least surviving a few years of dissapointment, leads us to Janes suggestion. Don't wait around for others, take care of it your self. Its to late today, but next year about a month, start telling those close to you what you want, ok, folks 30 days to make your plans, my day is comming, but still always have a back up plan, to take care of your celebration. I listened to a lady talk yesterday, and each year on her birthday she makes a list of what she likes about herself, and what she doesn't, and what she needs to change, and each year the list of what she likes about her self gets longer. Try to spoil your self today.

May 4, 2001
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It's perfectly normal for us to feel disappointed if no one seems to care about something that's special to us--like a birthday! There's nothing wrong will feeling hurt that you friends did not meet your expectations. After all, relationships, especially close or intimate ones are full of expectations. I hope you know that you are special, and that even though the people around you did not do what they could have to make sure your day was special, that doesn't mean that you aren't deserving!

Hope you have a better day!!!

Your friend,

Mal

May 4, 2001
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A friend of mine has her birthday tomorrow, her 30-somethingth. She has never ever had a birthday party just for her. This year, she decided to be different, and she is having a special party to commemorate the day. It's a really big deal for her because she's felt cheated by her past birthdays where she just sort of swept the date under the rug as if it didn't matter. (Oh but it does...)

My birthday is on New Years, and I always feel a little let down by that because no one really seems to know or care, it's already a public holiday. Combine that with all the people who are jittery from not smoking, or dieting, or trying to exercise, or starting some other new years resolution that they are dreading, and it doesn't make for a particularly special "me-focused" day. (And top that off with my most recent birthday, where my husband didn't get me anything, slept most of the day, and then divorced me two weeks later and moved in with a friend of mine who he had been sleeping with for the past few months while I was trying to save the marriage. Happy Birthday indeed.)

Happy Birthday, Chris-tina. Vent all you want, we'll take more. šŸ˜‰

Cheers,
Gingerleigh

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