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10:14 pm
September 27, 2010
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Hi Lolli: I read on another thread that your bf is being a jerk and tomorrow (Sunday) is your b'day. So if he is not gonna be good to you, we will! Happy Birthday Girl!! SD
10:25 pm
September 29, 2010
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THANK YOU ((((SD)))))
Love,
Lolli
10:35 pm
September 29, 2010
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Happy Birthday, lolipop3! May all your wishes come true! Hugs.
10:49 pm
September 29, 2010
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happy birthday hun i hope you have a wonderful day
10:51 pm
September 30, 2010
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(((((Lolli))))
Happy Birthday!!!!
Thank you honey for all the help you've been giving me and others on this site! May you be happy and blessed on this birthday!
(((Hugs)))
10:53 pm
September 27, 2010
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i'm no good at things like this, and upon reading some of the other posts above mine. i'm sure mine will fade from memory first.
happy birthday. i hope you are able to relax like you want to.
10:56 pm
September 27, 2010
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blyxx: you did just fine.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY WE LOVE YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU.
Chin up. Try to have a good day.
11:08 pm
September 29, 2010
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Thank you all so much.
Your support and well wishes are helping to turn a really crappy day into a really wonderful day.
I thank you all for that.
Blyxx,
Considering you said that you weren't really good at this type of thing, I wanted to thank you personally. Your response on my birthday thread is very thoughtful and your support during the hard time that I am having is greatly appreciated.
Love,
Lolli
12:31 am
September 27, 2010
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Good thing to start celebrating Lolli's birthday early SD, she needs a big boost!
HaPPy BiRtHdAY dear Lolli! You have us here to celebrate your famous day!
So you always have us here to be with you! What special thing are you going to do just for you????????? Something fun or sassy or just whatever you want. Maybe all the chocolate you want? Please share with us!!!!
May this year be a great one with good health and wonderous growth and fun adventures!
~Sew~
12:33 am
September 27, 2010
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happy birthday again.. i see that on the boards it is now the 25th (not sure if it's different or same for everyone).. Just wanted to say happy birthday again.
we'll be here as much as possible.
3:57 am
September 24, 2010
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOLLI -- and maaaaaaannny more!
Do something different. Just one thing.
Love, Lass
9:19 am
September 30, 2010
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happy birthday lolli....and if your bf can't give you a good b'day...we will...cuzx we care!!!!
love camer
10:45 am
September 30, 2010
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Happy Birthday Lolli! I hope you eat cake for breakfast, Lunch and dinner shamelessly, that you exchange gifts you don't like for ones you do, and that all told you have a really wonderful day.
I also think you should get yourself a nice present...go on, go to EBay and hit the 'buy it now' button without bothering to bid. Or better still, go to the mall and really touch said object, be able to take it out of the package or clip the dags the very day you shell out the cash for it!
And if your bf wants to enjoy this day too, great. And if not the best revenge is linving well and no better day to live well than your birthday!
11:38 am
September 29, 2010
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Thank you EF,
Boyfriend has decided not to partake in the birthday festivities. He called earlier to say Happy B-day and to tell me that he had to work. An arguement ensued due to the fact that he thinks I should just let this go but I refuse.
As I've said, it's one thing to be in a bad mood and to be cranky, it is another thing to falsely accuse me of cheating and lying when he has no basis for doing so. I told him that I expected an apology and had nothing to say to him unless and until I got one. He then said "I'm sorry that you think that I insinutated you cheated"....I responded by saying "I don't need to apologize for me, I need to you admit that you were wrong and to apologize for your behavior, not for the way I feel." He told me if "I had just kept my mouth shut, I could be having a nice birthday right now." (He had originally said he was going to take me to a nice restaurant tonight but unfortunately, I have learned to not get excited over such promises. Getting excited only leads to disppointment.)
Around and around it went until we hung up.
So here I am, suprisingly feeling ok. I have a very strong sense that I am right and need to stand my ground on this one. I will not swallow my pride or avoid standing up for what I believe just for sake of harmony on my birthday.
I am going to the store, coming home and getting in my pj's, catching up some reading and maybe even taking a nap.
Thank you for your birthday wishes....it really does mean alot.
Love,
Lolli
12:03 pm
September 27, 2010
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dear lolli
happy birthday. i brout you a big choclett cake. a care bear. a smile. an a birthday hug.
luv kristy xoxo
12:25 pm
September 30, 2010
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Hey lolli--Sorry I missed your day! You are a gift! Thank you for all of your wisdom and insight--thank you for being you -- and for your awesome sense of humor...
Love and hugs -- 2b
12:44 pm
September 27, 2010
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Another Libra...I knew there was a reason we got along so well!
Happy Birthday girl!
kc
2:23 pm
September 30, 2010
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Happy Birthday, lolli!!
hope your day is a good one for you
love
~ds78
3:32 pm
September 27, 2010
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOLLI
The Itsy Bitsy Spider climbed up the birthday cake, "Itsy" quickly learned that he'd made a big mistake. He climbed up on a candle before the cake was cut. Then Itsy Bitsy Spider he burned his little butt.
Hope you are having a good day.
🙂
4:09 pm
September 30, 2010
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Lolli! Way to choose your battles, you must feel very proud and like you've come so far!
And on your birthday, a perfect time to see growth in yourself.
4:18 pm
September 24, 2010
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Lolli! Hang in there, stay strong. Here is to a year filled with all the love you never even imagined!
Love, Neshie
4:46 pm
September 29, 2010
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And this is to a beautiful, smart and lovely woman. . .Happy Birthday Lolli. May this year be the begining of better, brighter things and more blessings in your life.
XXXXXXX
5:52 pm
September 30, 2010
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Happy happy birthday Lolli!
I was really hoping that your bf would dig deep for that apology that you deserve, in time to make your birthday wonderful. The hell with him now - hold out for the apology and don't let this ruin your 34th bday, my friend.
I had a bf that used to ruin EVERY single birthday that I had... for 5 years of my life. Two weeks before my bday, he would feel it necessary to let me know that he hated everything about my birthday... having to buy me something, picking out a card, just the thought of it made him ill. He would then let me know not to expect much because he didn't have any money. Great guy, huh? I'd cry two weeks before, the day of, and a week after, EVERY year.
Spoil yourself today, you'll probably have a better time without him. Lots of love lolli -
7:05 pm
September 29, 2010
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Thanks Shaney,
Unfortunately, due to circumstances beyond our control we ended up spending most of the day together trying to straighten out a situation at a furniture store.
It was a nightmare that escalated into more and more insults, name calling, argueing, etc. I try so hard to not engage in this type of behavior but this time I jumped in head first and we both said a lot of things that should not have been said. The kind of things that are said that cannot be taken back.
I'm not sure where will go from here. He said some things about me, although most of it untrue, but just the fact that he was willing to say them makes me really question why we are together at all.
I also said some things that I cannot take back. I told him that I was no longer in love with him and that I felt that we had such different values that it would never work between the two of us and at this point we are both just wasting each other's time.
I know that given a couple of days he will be willing to let all of this go and act as though none of it happened but the fact of the matter is although most of the things that he said about me were untrue and solely meant to hurt me.....the things I said were true.
Even though I believe what I said, I don't feel confident that this will be the end. I think that I will stay strong for a few days but then I will cave.
I wish I had the strength to do the right thing for myself but I'm not sure that I do.
I could really use some support right now.
Love,
Lolli
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