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Had a little setback today ..I'm kinda disenchanted
February 27, 2007
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February 27, 2007
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Today I went to my counselling appt. that I made back in Decemder when I first posted here on this site...Well it turns ou th receptionist made a mistake and didn't have me in the right place. I have been through doctors for a year now and have been patience ..If you have no insurance than it is another story..Well I let that be know here ..And have applied and signed up for assistant..Which is all good, but the girl made amistake so I have waited 2 months for nothing....The doctor recognized this and told me where to call, of course I am broke down crying in the office......I feel like I just get tired of trying to get medical and mental care at this point.....I don't know I am just totally tired of it..I had this appt set up before xmas..So I am just not sure if I can make things work for me inthis ever changing world.....I want to just go back ao the farm and hide.....horsefly

February 27, 2007
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Maybe I sure just start my tread by asking everyone if I should end my life?

February 27, 2007
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HF,

That just totally sucks. To go to all that time and trouble and still not get in to see anyone. I'm sorry you are so disappointed.

I've never been to any kind of therapy or counseling so I have no idea how helpful they are or not. But none of them can work magic or make your troubles vanish. They just help you to cope and maybe readjust your thinking. At least, that's my take on it. All I can suggest is trying to make another appointment. In the meantime, do more reading and research into the areas where you think you are experiencing difficulty. Do whatever you can to bring peace into your life.

You're stronger than you think you are. You can and you will get through this rough patch in your life. Just know that your unhappiness is temporary and it will pass. You will have many more brighter days ahead of you. Take care of yourself, my friend. (((HF)))

February 27, 2007
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Thank you Loralei for realizing that this did suck today.. But like you say I am strong and I will get past this... Plus suicide is neve an option for me..I am way beyond being in enough pain and all that stuff to ever put that on my family or friends...I really do need this therapist appt. .I hve alot of things going on that I just have to to put on one plate...I will call again tommorrow..Thanks again, horsefly

February 27, 2007
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But I have not been taking any medications at all . An I way hoping this would help me cope with all my changes. So I again am at the beginning of my starting board looking for help in a new town that I couldn't find in the other town. Plus I will just have too wait again like I did before another year,,Oh well.What is another month or two? or three? or four? Whatever I am sure I will be just fine as always......doda dada da da da horsefly

February 27, 2007
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HF, I don't know what all problems you are having to face these days. I know we have all had "men" problems but I don't know what all yours involved. If you haven't written about them before, it might help to either post them here or write in a private journal at home. It can be pretty therapeutic just to put it in writing and organize your thoughts and feelings.

Unless you have some kind of chemical unbalance, like being bipolar or something of that nature, I'm not sure if medication is the answer. Personally, I think meds are highly overused and create a dependency. It all depends on the seriousness of your problem and its cause. Facing your problems head-on is more likely to resolve them than trying to escape from them. You just seem like a very strong individual who can withstand a lot.

Are you in a new town? If so, a fresh start and being able to distance yourself from your past may help a lot. Detachment is so great if you can do it. In my case, being away from my exbf has ended the chaos he created. I focus on myself and what is best for me now. Try to do that as much as you can. It is very healing.

I also recommend yoga and meditation. Anything that is peaceful and relaxing is good for the soul. Hang in there. You'll get through this just like you've gotten through everything else in your life. Our trials and tribulations do make us stronger. Get some rest. Nite.

February 28, 2007
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Ah horsefly...this is awful. To be so dissappointed. Try to look past the negative thought hun...you have us here until you can get an appt, you can seek me out anytime you need to. Whats the story now hun? When will they be able to see you?

February 28, 2007
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Loralei, Thank you so much for your thoughts.. I do have alot of other problems , plus the man thing...I have posted so much on these treads that my original thread is "coda and narcissium ties ". I have been trying to go through a new medical system for my injuries which happened 2 years ago, horsebites to my arm and shoulder.....Well , I just need to find out for sure alot of things about this, plus I am in menopause, plus my son is living to go to Iraq, after the wedding this month...Plus I have left the man I was with for 10 years, plus my mother is sick and getting old..Plus, plus , plus,,,,,,,,,What I was hoping for and today I am finding out ...That I could talk to just one person that can help me sort ou my emotional self and if I do need medication, of some form than They will know all about me.....Bless You Loralei...I just felt like you should know about all my stuff since you were so very supportive yesterday during my crisis.........Today I called the doctors back and I am getting a different responds...Like they didn"t realize I was already hooked up with the hospital I was dealing with,,,So Now everybody is getting it...And what to rescheduled me soon..After I talked to a few people in the business office............Rev, Thank you also for being here for me during my crisis, I am rescheduled sometime in March and another appt. in Oct. but I have to call back every week for a awhile for a cancellation....I am 49 yrs. old and I donnot what to be disabled for ever in my shoulder because I could not get workman's comp or medical attention , But since things have have taken so long .I am starting to believe the last doctor this could maybe the way it is ..just chronic.....mentally it has taken a toll on me...I have never been not able to use my arm of shoulder and not have to worry about redamaging all the time.....emotionally it does wear me out..horsefly

February 28, 2007
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(((HF))) You do have a lot weighing you down! Your physical injury alone could cause despair and emotional turmoil. I know how hard it is to function with only one good arm and that was just a temporary problem for me. For you to go this long, that is such a bummer.

An impending wedding, a son going to Iraq, an aging/ill mother, etc. You do need some relief of some kind. When it rains, it pours, doesn't it? I'm glad they are rescheduling your appt. Your emotional problems are all caused by external problems that you are having to deal with. You are sane and strong. You just have more to deal with than most people can handle and I hope you can get some help during this difficult time. Keep asking for medical attention for your injury. Surely they can find some way for you to get treated properly for it. Don't give up and don't stop looking for answers.

When I get the chance, I'll check out your previous thread that you mentioned. I wish there were some way to classify threads by their author. There are so many that I don't get around to reading.

I've got to get back to work. I'll check in on you later.

February 28, 2007
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Thank You Loralei, I am just staying focused on what I am trying to do with everything..that is why is is just not simple for me me ..I try to not deal with this and what to go back ...to where? I know you from the NC gang but when I left him I had to..Bless You Again, Your Friend , horsefly

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