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11:23 am
September 24, 2010
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So the game continues. As we all know Mr. Jack called me Tuesday and wanted to come over and have sex. I said no. So then he called me yesterday as well to see if I would help him with the lawsuit thing. I said I would as long as it was through email. So then I still have some stuff of his and I was going to mail it to him. I called and asked for his address and he said he could stop by I said no, and he said he had to go and got off the phone he was at work. So then I called back and left a message asking him for his address and saying once again if you email me that stuff I can help you and if not, oh well this isn't my problem. SO he has decided to ignore that, and now I got on yahoo messenger this morning and of course he is on there and then the minute I get on he signs off. I almost think he did it on purpose, I don't know if I am being paranoid now or what, but I almost think he knows when I get on so he gets on and just to get a reaction from me logs off the minute I get on.
Well no reaction for him. He wants me to call him and ask him to come have sex, he thinks I will do that and then that way he doesnt have to feel guilty for anything, even though I have stated I am not into just having sex.
I have done this before so why wouldnt he think I would do it again.
Little does that prick know that I just don't want to deal with these gams anymore, so HA, I know your game prick.
11:24 am
September 29, 2010
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Aces do NOT have sex with him.I am in the exact same boat as you are. You will only feel worse when he gets up and leaves immediately after. TRUST ME!!!
11:28 am
September 24, 2010
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Oh I know I have already been there before. See Mr. Jack is pretty predictible, he thinks that by ignoring me right now I will get so upset at being ignored that I will call him, and then he thinks that (like before) I will want sex so much that I will say fuck it too all the other things I am against like not being used for sex, and that I will want him so much that I will forgo all those things, and beg him to come over.
I know his fucking game. I know it and I know it and I finally just don't want to play it. I have too much else going on in my life to deal with this shit as well. Besides, he isn't that great. He may have been hot, but that was about it.
So no, I won't get into this one again, I have seen it happen too many times before and played into it.
11:29 am
September 29, 2010
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DO NOT, i REPEAT DO NOT let him in the door, and can you refer him to someone else for the legal stuff... it appears that he's using "the help with legal stuff" as a means to continue contact/games with you... It may just be time to cut all ties with this "prick" as you put it....
11:37 am
September 27, 2010
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Is this the same Mr. Jack who was pushing in to your home and making you feel afraid a while ago? Assuming it is, if you even think about him, other than thinking about ways to avoid him and protect yourself from him, you're playing his game. Yahoo messenger be damned.
12:10 pm
September 24, 2010
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Yeah I know, and besides that I am not the same person I was before where I would already be calling him wondering what he is doing and why he didn't call me back, I only called to help his shit ass out, and I really dont care if he calls back or not, I mean I am not hte one the needs help here.
12:25 pm
September 29, 2010
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Aces, I can't believe how similar our situation is. He's only punishing me right now by not calling me, just waiting to see if I'll cave. OR...perhaps he really is stepping away, backing away. I used to get calls constantly, but now it's one a day, if that....
12:29 pm
September 24, 2010
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JKO- he isn't I know the type to well now, he is waiting for you to call because he knows you will, it is all about control and how he has control over you. I have even heard Mr. Jack say that to me, I have control over you you will call me, well now he can kiss off.
GUESS WHAT?? I AM PLANNING ON A CRUISE TO THE BAHAMA's
12:33 pm
September 29, 2010
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Good for you! I am going to Mexico in June. In the past, I NEVER would have committed to a trip out of town without seeing if he wanted to go somewhere with me instead. When I went out of town for New Year's I told him the day before NYEve and he was ticked off. Retaliated by sleeping with someone he had just met on NYEve, and told me all about it.
12:37 pm
September 24, 2010
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Hey aces...
I'm proud of you. A few weeks behind, but you are holding to our pact! That's great. I wouldn't even help him with this legal stuff anymore, or mail him his shit for that matter. He can kiss your ass and get his own copies of the paperwork elsewhere.
Trip to the Bahamas, when?
12:42 pm
September 24, 2010
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I am thinking april it is one of those 4 day cruises, I am so excited. I have come to realize that life Post Mr. Jack is better than life with Mr. jack and pre Mr. Jack.
So what's up with you tabbie?
Had any good sex?
12:47 pm
September 24, 2010
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haha, you're a crack up.
I did in fact, about a week ago with the new guy... perfection, I might add (at least for now.) But I'm getting back on birth control and had to take a pregnacy test and then "abstane" for two weeks, then take another test before they'll put me back on.
Kinda sucks conciderning it's the I want you so bad, can't get enough of you stage in the relationship but probably a good thing. Gives us more time to focus on eachother with out the sex in the beginning. But when February 8th rolls around you better believe I'll be getting a good fuck! 🙂 lol
12:54 pm
September 24, 2010
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That's my girl. Well you will have to let me know since I will be living vicariously through you now that I am able to resist Mr. Jack. At least let's hope so. I don't think I can fall into this shit again with him and I certainly am not giving him the control back.
Did I tell you I bought one of those 200$ at home electrolysis units. I am such a dork.
1:04 pm
September 24, 2010
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"I don't think I can fall into his shit again..." NO!...you won't. And if you do, even for sex, you know how things will go...and yes, you will give him the control back.
Give it at least two months, aces... that's about where I'm at, and regardless of the new guy I feel very different about my ex. Sure, I still miss him and wonder, and when I see him, its wierd and comfortable, and alomost exciting but definatly not worthy of my time, affection, or even just some steamy sex. I think you'll feel the same way now that you've made up your mind to hold out for better.
And belive me, better is on its way. Just give it the time it needs to make its way to you. Plus, its almost fun to say "hell, I DONT care anymore," and just do yur own thing. And you have your trip to the Bahamas coming up, and I'm sure there will be some hot single guy just looking for a good time on the trip. lol
1:06 pm
September 24, 2010
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Does the electroysis unit really work?
1:14 pm
September 24, 2010
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We will see I haven't tried it yet. I hope to god I don't electrocute myself.
1:16 pm
September 24, 2010
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I'm glad I'm in the office by myself today cause your cracking me up. If the boss was here he would think I was a nut; laughing at myself in front of the computer screen.
If only "real" work could be this entertaining, maybe I'd get something done!
1:21 pm
September 24, 2010
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Yeah no kidding. I rarely get anything done when I am just not in the mood to do anything.
So you read what Mr. Jack is up to, you think it's just some test game crap on his part seeing if I will go running to him, since he has pulled away now? Why are men so stupid, I can't wait for the cruise Im going to find a hot cabanna boy and smother him with my love, or at least lust.
OMG- I forgot to tell you, or did I about Mr. Yahoo guy? He killed a fish sent it down the garbage disposal because it was upsetting his snail, does that not seem odd?
1:28 pm
September 24, 2010
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hi my name is karen this all sounds so much like what i have experienced,the man i was seeing played so very similar games with me i have been on threads all day trying to get some answers to a very unhappy two years he told me he was manic depressive but im begining to think he was a controll freak as well im not sure any got any idears would be grateful x
4:16 pm
September 24, 2010
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Well I'd do what I did and I finally was done with Mr. Jack, don't get me wrong I still want him and all that but it just isn't good for me so I cannot do it.
4:23 pm
September 24, 2010
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Aces,
hear you on that, the sex was great but the strings that went with it....now I'm SNIPPING AWAY!! SNIP, SNIP, So not worth it... Like recently when we have had sex I can't even enjoy myself fully because i know I shouldn't be doing this anymore. He was always saying he could have sex with me anytime he wanted, which was true. So not anymore!
4:27 pm
September 24, 2010
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yup, even today he calls and is like what time do you want to meet at your place and I said we aren't meeting at my place, and he says why not, what's wrong with you? Hello , fucking loser, so I say to him nothing. He then states you know you want me, and blah blah and I simply stated
You know that is the mentality rapist have. At least he shut up.
4:31 pm
September 24, 2010
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what planet do these guys come from? I would love to go there, must be nice to live in your own reality...
Don't you love it when they call you after a massive arguement or when they have gotten physical and the next day things are fine, as they have gotten over it, so you should too??? I don't know why I am so afraid of just cutting the cord completely. He had me convinced that we were friends but you know what? People like him don't have true friends. Why else would every single one of his best friends tell me he is fooling around on me, every single one of them has sooner or later, the very last one to report just on friday. Of course him choking me the other day helps me detest him. ACK.
4:36 pm
September 24, 2010
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No contact, honey. It really does wonders. That means no helping him with legal issues, even via email. No contact at all.
Day 24 of no contact at all and I am doing pretty damn good. In 4 days I supposedly kicked the habit, so there ya go....
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