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Guy At My School Hung Himself
February 6, 2005
10:52 pm
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hi, been a while since i talked, making improvements in life, i felt awesome until thursday morning, i was sitting in Industrial Tech because i go to high school and the teacher says "a guy died" everything stops and then he says "he died at his house because he commited suicide by hanging himself" everything is silent, i bet there wasnt a person in that room that's heart didnt skip a beat. That day was chaotic, everybody was crying, my friends were too, nobody knew the reason why he did it, and if he even thought of his friends, he was a loved kid. Friday things got a little better everybody flipped their collar up and wore bandanas like he used to do when he was alive. That was until i was sitting in Reading listening to after day announcements and it says "The visiting hours are 12-7 and the funeral is sunday at 11, pick up more information in the office" and thats when it hit everybody. Its not like we didnt know he was dead before its just that it didnt really sink in. That was the real reality check. The wake up call. He was dead. So Friday at the end of the day crying continued. I dont get it, if he hated life that much why did he do that? Whey did he destroy his life? Maybe that problem that he was having a hard time dealing with wont even matter 20 years from now, but he could have been living 20 years from now, it wouldnt have effected him at all. But now his life is over because of that one decision. That one stupid decision that put his family, friends, everybody that knew him in pain. I know what its like when parents lose a kid, my Cousin's 2 yr old baby girl died and she was crying so bad, hurt so much, you could literally see her heart shattered. It wasnt the same. The guy had a brother who was a senior in high school, he was the one who found him dead, hung. How bad would that be? You cant imagine the horrible sight, his brother right there hanging by his neck on a rope. My last bf tried to hang himself and that scared me to death, he didnt die, he told me about it, about how he felt like he was light, about how he brushed up against death. The pain is real, I dont know why he did this, it hurt us all...how do i get over this lose?

February 6, 2005
11:05 pm
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It is such a loss when someone takes their life. If you have his parents address, send the family a card. I can't imagine the pain they are feeling. Maybe it will make you feel better to send the card. And if you find that you are having a more difficult time, then please see your guidance counselor. I remrember when I was in high school, (many years ago), and somone committed suicide. It affected some more than others, and guidance counselors made the announcement that they were available for those who needed to talk. SO if you do, make sure you seek them out ok?
It is never easy to know someone or of someone who does this sort of thing.

February 6, 2005
11:09 pm
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oh hun,
My heart sure goes out to you. What a terrible thing to happen. It's so hard...we want a reason..unfortunately, there usually aren't.
My brother committed suicide 6 years ago...I have come to terms with it finally...
You have to really focus on you right now. Everything else is optional. Be gentle with yourself. This is the key. Your mind will find ways to cope. I am here and I care about you. Be strong...it is in you.
Love u,
Sue

February 6, 2005
11:25 pm
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My heart goes out to you, and his friends and family... I had a freind of mine hang himself AT MY HIGH SCHOOL when I was there.... It was so bizarre.. I dont think I understand it now, even after 15 years... It is one of the most puzzling things, and sadening, and helpless feelings.. My thoughts are with you... I am so sorry.

February 6, 2005
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Oh yes.... what a devastation the suicide leaves. The family ... the poor family! And all you, who did not know he was feeling so bad.

I've been told that suicide is usually a default thing when a person cannot think of any other way out.

The sad thing is, when you no longer have a body, you are stuck in an unending now of pain.... never being able to go and find help.

If there were some place you could go to, some person who could be there for you....or some phone service, maybe things wouldn't go to that extra - final - dreadful step.

It's always good to know where that help is. It's always good to know where you could direct a friend if they needed that help.

As a special thought to the young man who seemed not to have had the person or place to go to, would you be able to set up something at the shcool? Maybe a sign on the noticeboard or something? It's too late to help him, but maybe you could help others who think there is no other way out, when in fact they could get help.

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