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GRASS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE
February 27, 2006
1:44 pm
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nappy
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I know that there is someone out there who knows what I am talking about. Why is it that some people thinks that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Then when they find out that it is not, they want to come back.
My boyfriend and I lived together with one of my children. My youngest was the last to go. My boyfriend at the time left so that made me and my son find our own place. My son and I both know why he left. It was because he didn't want him there and just wanted me. It has been two and half years since we haven't been living together. Now he wants to get a house and wants me to be his wife and live the american dream that I wanted but now since I am on my own. I don't want it anymore. I am find the way things are. I have gotten over the hurt and pain and I am happy with myself to live by my self. I don't trust him anymore not like that. I think that he feels by telling me that he is going to get a house that I am suppose to pack up and move with him. He don't realize that I did that already and it didn't work. I would be happy for him if he did get him a house, I would be very happy for happy for him. He is trying to say that we have been through a lot and that we are soul mates but when he jump up and left me to defend for myself. I lost all respect for him as a man. I do love him and will always love him but not enough to make a life with him again like that. I know a lot of people like him but why do some people do that. After they left one good situation they fall into something that they didn't want in the first place.

February 27, 2006
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Well, maybe cause it's convienent or just something they are use too.comfortable for them, When you say you still love him, do you tell him that? I feel that when people are broke up they should say "concerned" not love. From my experiences, of the back and forth thing, mine didn't stay away as long but he would leave, come back and i allowed it hoping maybe it will be different. it never is. If you guys have stayed friends and stayed in contact with each other, maybe he is sincere. But if you are happy with yourself the way things are. leave it the way it is. I don't have the whole picture so I will not judge. hope I was a little helpful

good luck

sunshine

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