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Going crazy at the lack of human contact
May 25, 2007
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For the next two weeks, I have no family or friends here at all and I am sitting here alone in my apartment and I have no on one to talk to and I feel like I am going crazy. HELP

May 25, 2007
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Loverbee, do you go to church or have other affiliations? I usually go volunteer at the homeless shelter or soup kitchen. There is always someone you can talk too there:). Write a lot of entries on this site:)

May 25, 2007
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I have to be packing myself up at the same time but I just wish I had some friends to go out with at night. I ended up talking to one of my friends who just didn't get why I was feeling so antsy. It was like I was crazy. They called me from a party that they were at and I just lost it. I know they were actually just trying to make me feel like I was part of it but It just made me so jealous.

May 25, 2007
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I'm sorry, I know how that is. I have 3 friends that I hang out with and one lives about an hour away, so sometimes getting one of them to be available to go out is not always easy.

(((loverbee)))

May 25, 2007
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your not alone....just be happy, and know you have us to tt when you are feeling down, good to have cyber friends...know that this is just a phase you are going thru, keep busy, do good things and enjoy your own company!!!

May 25, 2007
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it was a phase because I guess I have been feeling helpless because I can't contact my dad right now cause I have to wait to talk to a lawyer. I just needed to cry last night. I It felt good. But I feel a bit better now. I mean, I know its only a few weeks and then I get to go to europe for a few weeks with my best friend. I am really excited for that.

May 25, 2007
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loverbee....when I was packing and moving...it was also overwhelming and made me feel isolated.

NOBODY wants to help someone pack and move.

And I phsyically and mentally burned myself out.

By time moving day came, I was cold, had chills and shivers and had a nervous breakdown...got sent to my mom's room to take a nap while others finished up for me.

It is overwhelming...so take breaks and relax...pamper your mind and body.

Moving is stressful...exciting too, but can be nerve-wracking on top of physically demanding.

So, go easy on yourself. and if you have to, get out, go for a ride to a bookstore or something...so you are around people enough to feel not so isolated.

May 25, 2007
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I think I am gonna go get some new workout wear. I am trying but if I have only broken down once in the last week of being completely isolated...I think I am doing pretty well.

May 28, 2007
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Good to hear that you are 1/2 way through and doing okay. I know how you feel. Sometimes I feel like I am holding my family hostage via phone because I can't bear to endure so much of my life alone. I need to listen to music, watch tv, or whatever to clean house or do anything that is not intellectually consuming... but mostly having someone to talk to helps. I need to have distraction now and I never realized how tedious somethings are since for most of my adult years I had bfs who would help or at least keep me company. I want to be the little girl I was once who enjoyed her own company! Well, maybe not exactly a child- but that was the last time I was happy. I suppose that's not a coincidence when it comes to not wanting to be alone with my thoughts too much.

Keep on doing what you are doing, allow yourself to feel your feelings, but you are being strong. Be nice to yourself through this and treat yourself to a few moments rest and something indulgent.

-ella

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