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GIRLS!!!!!guy has a question for you...hurry
February 22, 2005
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i need some responses befor i ask the question because i need advice on relationships and girls know the most( cause all-n-all you guys call the shots) hurry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

February 22, 2005
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what's the question?????

February 22, 2005
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And??????

February 22, 2005
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oh the suspense!!! teehee mosher???

February 22, 2005
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hey Mosher... whats yer question????????????????????????

February 22, 2005
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bring it on............

February 22, 2005
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dont you girls sound excitied....ok here goes something..... I had a girls friend and we dated for about year and a half, both really are first real long term relationship and we loved eachother very much.... so then he took eachother virginity.....but then broke up, i want to know if that still means something to her and if because that happened i still have a chance to win her back....so i guess my question is the guy you lose you virgintiy to is special right and youll always remember him? help and answer the question im so confused and i want to fix things with her i really messed up i know that and im not scared to tell anybody or her that but im scared that i lost her...what do i do?

February 22, 2005
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oh mosher...
My first experience wa not special so Im not a great person to answer this one... But iF it was , then YED, Id always remember and treasure that.
IF she will hear you out, and SEES not only hears that you made a mistake and are truly aware of it, and making efforts to change yourself, then IF it's meant ot be, she will hear you out. BUIt she may alsoe jsut be tired of the same excuses, and apologies for having no results.Unfortunatly, sometimes you can't regain trust or the relationship.Im sorry if that is not what you wanted ot hear, but It may be time to let her go, If she wont hear yo out.

February 22, 2005
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yes, i'll always remember my "first"....but i also regret it too, probably cuz the relationship didn't amount to much.

If you truely love her and care for her, there is def. a chance on getting back with her.....what is the reason you 2 broke up???

February 22, 2005
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i lied to her not nothing horrible but just stupid little stuff that doesnt mean anything now ....... what should i do!!!!!!!

February 22, 2005
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I think you should let her know how you feel and then see what she does. If she feels the same she will let you know.

The guy who took my viginity a while ago still calls and tells me he loves me, the sad part is that I have moved on and I can't feel that feeling for him again.

I care for him, but wouldn't date him again. It was a hard relationship, in the end and it didn't end that well, we were able to be friends or on friendly terms later, but I wouldn't go back.

Im a strong believer that when it's over and the feelings are gone, one shouldn't go back, at least I can't.

February 22, 2005
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You will always be special to her because you stayed in a relationship with her after. Definitely!! My first was the same way and he is still special to me though not in my life now. In fact, We are 33 now and were 13 (YES that young!) at the time and last year he looked me up and called and we both shared such great memories! I still felt a tug but after so long, definitely not romantic. Still...we will always share that bond as you will with yours. She may still be angry but those feelings will fade and she will always remember you fondly as her first

February 22, 2005
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if you love her, go get her! I'm sure you are special to her.

jill

February 22, 2005
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Mine wasn't special at all! But I'm in the same position as you at the moment - my first true love - we're having major problems, the same ones that seem to always keep showing up, and I'm running out of excuses to keep him with me andI'm scared he won't take my excuses anymore!! I have to believe that once you share something special with someone then you'll always have that bond! Give it a go and tell me if it works!!!

February 22, 2005
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I think (if you havent already) pour your heart out, lay it all out on the table..... Tell her everything , and see how/what she says& reacts.

February 22, 2005
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My turn, my turn, girls.......

My first experience was not that great. I really could't believe it happened. I really liked the guy, he was one of the cool dudes with tight black pants, blonde hair and black pointed Beatle boots with a hot car. Now I am dating myself here, but one never forgets the first time whether bad or good. So unless you were really in love and it was not just 'puppy love', then it could still mean something.

The lying part? Well, I think that would be best to fess up and explain to her why you did it and if you have changed, to let her know that. BUT, telling her is one thing, actions speak louder than words. Words mean nothing if what you say is not what you do. You have to walk the walk and talk the talk.

But before you fess up to her, I would suggest you do some soul searching and work on yourself first. Make sure you have changed before trying to win her back. If you haven't changed, your attempts to win her back and fess up the truth are mute efforts. Honesty is the best policy; with her, but mostly with yourself first.

February 22, 2005
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Yes mosher go contact her ASAP.
Remember if it's God's will, it will work out.

Give us the news whether positive or negative.

God bless!

February 22, 2005
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A relationship requires trust. If you feel that you have trully changed then you will have to re-build trust with her. And that takes time. But you need to take complete responsibility for the lies.

February 22, 2005
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I was just checking in 2 see if youd spoken with er yet.... and i am laughing at myself ,because i am remembering my first clearly after reading Sew's experience.. I had "the cool dude" with the black pants, long-ish hair and the Brand New IROC... Some terrible show was on TV called Dance part USA, and Push it, by salt n pepa was on....
Good greif....
LOL
I am laughing becasue the best part of the whole thing was the song.

Anyway,
Mosher... I hope your talk goes well.. Im thinkin' of ya'

February 22, 2005
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I had a great first time. I was 17. I was dating this guy for several months and we used to just hang out in our undies and then naked, and then we finally did it. It was awesome. The music playing for us was, "Nobody Does It Better." I loved him for a very long time. He broke my heart when he dumped me for a cheerleader. I actually hooked up with him years later, had a one-night stand with him. It wasn't the same. Heard he married someone that looked just like me though. That gave me a sense of satisfaction. LOL.

jill

February 22, 2005
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Ha..
I saw mr.Iroc when I was managing a healthfood store.. About 2 years ago..He was balding, and about 200 pounds bigger, (was WAS 6'2" and 150lbs when I knew him in high school) Didnt notice f he was still driving that car tho.. probly not, but it woulda been funny if he was. He Broke up because he was cheating on me the whole time with a girl from the high school on the other side of town.. and I heard Iwas a "bet" because I was a freshman, and those guys made bets on the freshmmen they could "get"
Asshole.

February 22, 2005
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Mosher...this has turned into a fun thread actually. Reading about others firsts. I hope its helping you! Dont forget to check your other thread and let us know how its going!

February 23, 2005
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Which, for you Mosher, it was. Because it wasnt just a casual first time sex thing. It turned out to be a year relationship!!

February 23, 2005
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man some of you girls had some real winners.....this is helping!!! because its showed me that she wont forget i just hope i get the chance to give it another try because i have change but i just dont sometimes know how to show her....honestly she makes me nervous, because she is so beautiful and sweet nice loving careing honestly shes perfect shit!!!!!!!! i messed up so bad, i just wish she would she the efort i putting out

February 23, 2005
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She can only see real change in you over time. Do not rush things. Be honest with her but do not go overboard. Tell her how you feel but allow her to have her own feelings. If you want her to see that you can be trusted live a trustworth life. Learn from your own mistakes and allow those of us who ave made FAR worse mistakes than you have in our own lives to be an example for you. We have screwed up so you won't have to!

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